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The sense of balance
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The sense of balance There are some things that you only learn as you grow up ‒ both literally and as a person -, there is no other way about it…When you are younger definitely you don’t know the right way to deal with them so you are bound to make mistakes. That’s more than alright, a problem arises only with some who are turn out to be really…dunce in learning about such things, they can’t be taught anything from the lessons ‒ call them experiences ‒ that life teaches us all on a daily basis…For instance there are many times in somebody’s life that he/she feels like he/she loses the balance. It doesn’t take anything big, dramatic or even worse tragic, two or three unexpected things happening together or a couple of them going the wrong way or even not the one destined for them are more than enough. Small, ordinary things of those that happen in everyday life, at work or at home…The inexperienced then tend to get panicked and react under frustration or even while being upset which actually causes even more damage than the thing itself. But the experienced know that such a situation is not that much different really than when you are in, let’s say, a ship that sways left and right because of a turbulent sea…If you are standing up then it is for sure that you’ll lose your balance. But even more than to keep holding from somewhere as not to fall down anybody that has been in a ship sometimes knows what to do then. He should look to the point of the ship where the most weight lies and position himself/herself according to that…But again there is a fine line between those who just know how to keep standing up in such an occasion and the really experienced sea travellers…just like there is between those who just manage to go through life and its…advanced users. The first often make the mistake to run towards the place where the weight is and of course by doing that they add more to it. The result obviously is that the balance is disturbed even more, that time because of a sudden change of the centre of gravity and not because of the initial reason. And in that case there could be a danger that is much greater than them to just fall down…It is exactly the same in life really, the weak in mind, heart and soul get scared and start running towards the things that weigh more…those that matter and mean the most to them. And this not only doesn’t help them in the slightest but can also cause damage to those things, just like any time that you don’t have complete control on your moves…But an advanced user knows that you never move in a rush because then it is more than sure that a wrong move, an error will happen. So in this case he/she stands firmly and keeps in mind to never lose sight of the things that matter as for being able to position himself/herself in the right way towards them. And then he/she only has to be a little patient, to wait until the turbulence is over and perfect balance has been achieved again… Just me but with all the ego left at the door... |
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2/4/2009 8:31 pm |
so the inexperienced are ruled by fear buddy?...and going much deeper...by fear facing the truth? clown in the shadows
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No buddy, this time it is not that complicated, we will not give them even that. People who are so inexperienced just have no idea what life is and because of that they can't handle even the slightest difficulty, as simple as that...Become a member to create a blog
