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Blogs > roxy54sexy > Looking For Fun & Distraction

The Friends With Benefits  

roxy54sexy 61F
4063 posts
2/8/2008 12:22 pm

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3/17/2008 6:37 pm
The Friends With Benefits

I noticed alot of profiles and have known some here have friends with benefits seems to want that kind of relationship. I would not mind it to much. But I am not sure how to proceed well in that kind of arrangement for too long. It is kind of like a in between thing I suppose. So I like some feedback on the subject to see how others are doing here. So what is your take on FTW Benefits. Do you like it? Is that your preferrable way of getting into that type of relationship? Just Curious.
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muffdivingfool69 55M

2/20/2008 5:49 am

 Roxy.. this is a VERY complicated subject.. i have had FWB in the past, but the last one i had.. well.. she was seperated from her husband for a very long time and it was during that time that we started the "Benefits" part.... and ...me and her had gotten close enough that she did not want to stop the "benefits" part even after she caved under the pressure of the kids to let daddy come home... and i had fallen in love enough to agree.. so it turned into a full blown affair that still goes on today and i see no solution for us.. so be very careful and thoughtful of the situations of the "friends" you pick to explore benefits with.. thats my input anyway


roxy54sexy replies on 2/20/2008 11:19 am:
Hello, sounds complicated for sure in some respects well you never know what you started in the first place to be will ending at the same place. Things change as relationships evolve into something else you did not attend to be in the first place. I guess you just never know what will happen in the future. I think that happens in all kinds of relationships. So you have to be careful on what you agree and really think about it before progressing into a friendw with benefits. Well just asking a question out there not necessarily having one and finding out more information on it. Thanks for posting.

girlscout2008 48F

2/9/2008 7:50 pm

 Although we didn't call it FWB back in the day, it was always going on. I did it in the past before getting married and it was never a problem for me. Being military, away from home all the time, it was just something my particular circle of associates did. Of course, if you're the type who has trouble separating love from sex, this type of arrangement could be very problematic. If not, just take the plunge- you may find that you like it. You can get what you want from the guy, and you don't have to worry about picking up his socks or making him breakfast in the morning...By the way, I just love your blogs. Keep 'em coming.

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roxy54sexy replies on 2/10/2008 12:36 pm:
Hello, yes I know when I got on FriendFinder-x here I thought never heard that phrase before but now I have here. Yes this type could be problematic and have kind of jumped into some already. But not to deeply yet. Thank you for loving my blogs and posting. Yes I will try to keep it going here.

Extramist 66M
14079 posts
2/8/2008 7:37 pm

 It is, or can be, complicated. It is not what I am looking for, nor have I ever sought it out. To be a FWB you have to be a friend who is confortable going places and doing things with the other party outside of the bedroom. It is easy for one of the parties to develop feelings or become jealous or possessive...it is ok if both parties are of a similar mindset. Many who say they are looking for FWB relationship are really only seeking a sex partner and are not that interested in the outside the bedroom aspect of it. The big question before entering into such an arrangement is for you to decide if the other person is one that you would feel comfortable being seen in public with and having your friends and family meet. This person could be a date to a family gathering and so on.
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roxy54sexy replies on 2/9/2008 11:28 am:
Hello, yes from the standpoint it sounds to be complicated. Yes You have to be comfortable with the situation inside or outside the bedroom. When jealousy and possesiveness comes to play can be difficult. Yes both parties have to be similar mindset. Yes the comfortability being seen in public,family, and friends has to be considered. Thanks for posting.

imbackcowboys 52F

2/8/2008 1:15 pm

 Friends with Benefits - this one is tricky since it isnt suppose to involve being jealous or trying to be controlling. I mention that because the FWB thing is about two people having sex and then going on their way. But being able to hang out as friends but with the extra bonus. I personally have found them to be fun, but it isnt great when one person starts being jealous or decides that the person they were having sex with should only be seeing them.
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roxy54sexy replies on 2/9/2008 11:23 am:
Hello, yes it sounds tricky for sure I guess it is as long you are happy with it is ok. But the downside as you say about the jealousy and controlling can put a down side to it. Thanks for posting.

simplyeasy2008 69M
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2/8/2008 1:09 pm

 Roxy, I think all you have to do is find a guy that looks good, with a profile you like and tell him your interested in a fwb and i believe he will jump at the opertunity. I would!


roxy54sexy replies on 2/9/2008 11:20 am:
Hello Greg, I found some already but still not sure of the longevity. Glad you would jump in FWB with me. Thanks for posting.

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