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The Pettiness
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The Pettiness It seems some people can be real petty about things. It can be anything mi spelling a person's name or handle. You know I am not perfect here. I try my best to be nice to people. I thought some people were nice that I chatted with in the chat room. But some people can turn into something quite different. I did nothing to them in the past. I am not sure when that changed. To some people think I am better than them. I am not here. I am a mortal human being with feelings. A few days ago I was in a chat room. Some one was upset I did not spell his name right. Then I was ridiculed by others one female I could not make sense what she was saying or understand. Then this one man I thought was real nice in the past. Suddenly attacked me saying I am a stupid dumb broad for not spelling this person's handle. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and asked if he was helping me or abusing me. He said he was helping me. I told him to stop calling me names. But I did not really think so. It just clenched it when he said in the chat room. Lets all ignore roxy. I was not to happy with that statement. So I then left the chat room. I tell you people can be rough at times especially if people abuse you. Most of the time it is ok then there are accept ions like this incident. Why do people want to embarrass you or try to shame you? I have said in the past if anyone abuses me. I will report them. So now I cannot really enjoy the site because of others insecurity and jealousy especially in that certain local chat room. I like to warn others here you may face the same fate of abuse of some type. Just be careful out there. Being thoughtful and reflective on the subject.  Please come check out my blog [blog roxy37sexy] invite you to check it out. you can also check out my profileroxy37sexy Please come and join my group captivating cams.Captivating Cams  Dare you com in my blog. |
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I thought youse guys out in Az had tough skins...now i know a Lady is supposed to be soft and sweet, but you can be rough and tumble and still the nice guys will like you... The air heads, bitches, jerks...they all can go take a hike, fall in a hold, blow away, well, that is the nice way to say it... or as those in the mother country would say...'piss off'
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Roxy, I am really sorry that you had to experience and endure that abuse. That is so petty. I probably make several errors, when writing, but no big deal. For them to be mean is uncalled for. I don't blame you for not wanting to go back into the chat room. It is rude, petty and just plain bullshit on their part. Maybe in a few weeks' things will change in thew chat room. You don't deserve that treatment, you are too nice of a person for that.
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I make typos too, particularly on my laptop keyboard, which is slightly smaller than my desktop. I even make spelling errors now and then, in spite of being generally sharp at spelling and having the help of spell-check (which I consider more useful as a typo check). I take offense at consciously bad or lazy spelling, but typos get a pass. Spelling mistakes sometimes get a polite correction (like your "acceptions"; it should be "exceptions"), if I think I can offer them without looking like a pedant. Sometimes, if i offer a polite correction, people get upset and think I'm attacking. Like you say, it's all petty. People do lose a lot of their social barriers online. That's good in cases like feeling free to talk about things freely that might be too embarrassing to say in public. Where else but this sort of site could I freely say I'd like a relationship but in the absence of one I'm fine with friends-with-benefits, for example? But it also makes it too easy for people to lose their inhibitions on rudeness. We take the bad with the good, I suppose
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It always amazes me that people at this site can be so petty and mean. Sure, there are people like that everywhere; but you would think that on a site dedicated to making friends and becoming intimate with others that this type of behavior would be at an absolute minimum. Roxy, don't let the a**holes get you down. You've got a good heart. There are too many mean spirited people at this site; but they pick on everyone, not just you.  AKA The Clit Whisperer. 
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Roxy, read my blog intro.. I do this for my friends and I tell all the English teachers out there to give me a break. The day my blog is professionaly published is the day I will get it perfect. Until then English teachers back the hell off!  You are more than welcome to quote me in the header of your blog.. LOL
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People in glass houses.... we are all not perfect - sometimes my spelling is my keyboard skills others it is spelling errors... but everyone has faults of one kind or another but it seems to me that you do not need people like that around you - I never use the chat rooms - I can't keep up - but htere is no real excuse for bullying or ganging up
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5/6/2010 1:20 pm |
love to chat with you sometime
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