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cheap!!!!  

wickedcat2006 49F  
725 posts
2/26/2019 8:51 am
cheap!!!!

A friend went out on Valentines day. she finally realized that her boyfriend was a cheap/dud. He asked her out, but typically forgets his wallet again, or cards maxed out, etc . As usual she pays to avoid the embarrassment.
Stuff like this happens often and every time he acts cute and tries to dance out of it. But she notes he has occasionally remarked on how she makes more money than he does. It is a matter of less than $10,000 per year and they both have good careers. He is just CHEAP!!!
After dinner they went to her place and she jumped out of the car when he stopped to park. He expected to be invited in for the most romantic day of the year. she gave him his valentine day gift a card and of course he was empty handed. not even a single rose; So she told him that its over went in without him.
He called her all the Dirty names in the book and drove away..

Now he he's been calling ad leaving apologetic messages on my voicemail. Gift baskets to her work place apologizing and she is starting to lose resolve. she has no one else in her life and of course sexual needs. she gave all her time to him the past two years and left her friends behind. she is about to break down and take him back
i am a female .. take him back
i am a female ..don't take him back
i am a male..take him back
i am a male.. don't take him back


Randybaby4U 60M  
29 posts
2/26/2019 3:58 pm

The Red Flags Have Been There All Along, She Just Refused To See Them.
Dump The Low Life and Find Someone That Treats You Great Everyday Of The Year.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/26/2019 6:25 pm

Dump him. The prediction of future behavior is tied to past behavior.
He sounds like a bore.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/26/2019 9:31 pm

Yes.......she has already wasted two years. He aint changing.....and thats a notion we ALL fail at, thinking people are going to change or will change for us....or that we can change them. Nope....nope...and nope. She has lost herself in dealing with him. Time to mooooove on.....me thinks ~~


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
2/26/2019 10:55 pm

Two beautiful answers by both sides are before me, cant add anymore than that. Exit stage left is her answer.


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
2/27/2019 8:37 am

Birthday Christmas Valentines day not a single fucking gift on the 20th Anniversary he did call her from the jewelry store but has yet to bring anything home . Dump his sorry ass I say . This could be her future just like somebody else we know .....


engcumman 54M
53 posts
2/27/2019 11:24 am

Seems pretty clear cut. Relationships should be two way, and work best this way. I mean who wants to come home so someone this thoughtless when they've had a really, really shit day and just need to be loved and cared for by their partner?


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
2/27/2019 8:30 pm

Lose the loser! Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.


Deepfeelins 49M

2/28/2019 6:32 am

Well, after my vote the tally is 30 saying DON'T take this cheap loser back, and one that says she should. 30 to 1, the verdict is in.


20190320 47M

3/24/2019 8:49 pm

there are more men out there who would gladly step up and do the right thing. dump the guy!!


allgud69xxx 50M
502 posts
7/28/2019 11:05 am

The only time he can sort-of treat her semi-normally is when he thinks he's going to lose her? The calling her names the night before should tell her the real answer -- nobody who actually cares about you can treat you that way. Where's the ejection seat to rapidly remove this moron from her life?

-- allgud69xxx

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