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Before you get to female ejaculation, make a connection!
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Before you get to female ejaculation, make a connection! Before you ever get to female ejaculation, you need to make a connection. A real connection! NSA is a very cool term to say no commitment. No commitment is not equal to no involvement. No arrangement, no boyfriend/ girlfriend situation, no marriage. While this sounds like perfection to many mature men, it is a red flag to many women. You might think it is ideal to have a girl who comes over for sex and when you had your fun, she goes home , no questions asked. The few assumption that come to mind immediately are, how great a lover you must be, whoo whoo, you command her attention for great sex and she loves that about you. She wants nothing more from you than how great your penis and tongue perform! Although this may seem amazing to you, ask yourself honestly if all the women you have know really think you are that good. If so, the following information is not for you! You are amazing just as you are! Keep telling everyone you want NSA sex. If you are not that superman please consider keeping a more open mind. By keeping an open mind, I first suggest stop adverting that you want NSA sex. Even saying FWB is still code for wanting NSA sex. Sure you will find some women very overbearing who want to take over your life and get married asap. Seriously not all women want that much togetherness. Try to find balance. Keep in mind an offer for NSA sex tells women you probably prefer not to ever get to know them. Maybe you even prefer not to meet over coffee or lunch, just come over and get right to it. From a woman’s perspective, this indicates a shallow, non-emotional person who prefers no conversation and no real intimacy. If this is you, go for it, take what you get and keep moving on. Life is what it is. If you have more to offer and keep finding the connection is not happening, look at some things that might be preventing women from finding an interest in you. Many people do not like posting a face picture. The concern for not having bosses, coworkers, friends and family recognize you is a legit and very valid reason. If this is you, keep in mind you can selectively send out a photo when you have sincere interest and want that in return. Don’t send a hello email that offers to send a pic if they are interested. That just is not the approach that brings someone to want to know more. So now you sent a photo, a nice photo. You did not select one too far away or with your tongue hanging out, or the cowboy hat and sunglasses one, or the group pic from a convention. It does not take much to present yourself as a warm and wonderful human being. Maybe you love long walks on the beach, but tell her instead that you might enjoy sharing an evening getting to know her, having a nice glass of wine or a healthy smoothie at your favorite café. Let a woman know you are interested in her and not just interested in the fastest route to sexual gratification. Try to keep in mind, if you are not willing to put forth any effort you will only find those women who have low requirements from men. If you want only those easy shallow women, go for it and keep your style as uncomplicated as it can be, get what you get and recognize that is all you are worth. In the event you actually want quality women to be attracted to you, reach out to show them you are the quality they want. Many men complain no one is serious. Part of the reason women do not get serious is based on what they see. They see you ask for a hook-up. They see you ask hi, how are you tonight. Often that question is sent out at 1 a.m. I can hardly stress enough that your approach is so important to what you get for results. I have heard many guys say they do not want to put a lot of effort when no one ever responds. Well since you don’t put forth the effort, no one responds. At the very least take the time to write a small paragraph. Say hi, tell them you like what they wrote and are interested in getting to know them. Tell them a bit about yourself. Your interests or your work or where you grew up. Tell them you love sports or animals or science or cooking. Whatever is sincere, share that about yourself. Ask them if they would like to find out if there could be a connection. Offer a phone number or email or KIK, whatever is your preferred form of communication. This is a very small effort to create this and save it to your desktop. It can be sent out to those you find interesting, but preferably only once. If they don’t respond, create a new approach and send a completely new and different paragraph to send the second time and ask them if they are interested and ask what you can do to make communications easier for them. If you find you are able to create a dialog, work at it a bit. Now is the time to make a little effort. Create honest and sincere conversation to share ideas, share who you are and what you offer and ask about them. A few things I suggest for you to avoid are detailed fantasies of what you want to do to them. This is at times too much information. Often too specific and not always exactly what they like. If you make suggestions of what you like, try to be considerate of what they have already told you about them. If a person says they are not submissive, keep that in mind before you tell them you want to tie them up and spank them. If they have said they do not like smoke, yet you are a smoker, you might tell them you are a considerate smoker and only do so outdoors. The more you convey that have read and considered their feelings the more they will respect that about you. If you would honestly like to build a rapport and something she might like to continue as well as something you want to continue, please reach out to let her know. Even on a sex site women want to be wanted. They want to feel the desire and that they are special . But saying so is not enough. Saying so is words. Words are often times part of a game. A lot of women can see the game and see through your words and your game. Find things that you truly like and reasons she is unique. The more you speak from your heart the more you will receive a warm response. Too many people have lost the art of caring and kindness. If you are reaching someone in their 20s less intent is on these old fashioned values but the women over 40 tend to appreciate sincerity. There is a direct connection of their perception of who you are and what you want to their wants and needs. If you have followed my suggestions and do not get a good result, skip that one and move on to another. If they ignore you they are not the quality you hoped for anyway! If you put it out there what you have to offer, more than just sexually, you should find more quality responses. But if you reached someone and all that you have to give is not the right vibe, don’t stress the same qualities once again, mix it up and mention other great reasons to meet you. Many who are not really looking for a commitment are still looking for quality interactions. They might still like to share an evening of fun and romance in addition to a great sexual encounter. If this matches you, let them know that you would like to do other things, music, movies, dinner, sports, or whatever moves you both. They might like to know about you and what you have done with your life so far. Tell the story, what can it hurt? If you have , tell them how the fit into your big picture. If you typically have them with you 7 nights a week, they need to know that. If you always have your on the weekends, share that. If you work nights, please let them know. Another very important point you need to share is your very significant problems. If you are bipolar, if you have ED, if you have been to prison, there is a right time to let them know. They need to make an informed choice. They need you to be fair and not hide secrets. Likewise you need to ask about those important aspects of who they are. |
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