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A fool no longer  

whoisagentj 54M
662 posts
4/1/2019 6:18 am

Last Read:
4/4/2019 8:16 am

A fool no longer


I guess as I keep getting messages here, it seems I keep getting the same type of message here where they keep asking me to give them my info.

(first message out of the gate) - "What's your telephone number?" - yeah, sorry not gonna happen.
"Where exactly do you live" - like I going to give them my exact address or GPS coordinates.
"What company do you work for?" - Nunyabizness.
"How much money do you make a year?" - enough. Otherwise go to Glassdoor and look up data center engineer to see averages.
"Contact me on YXZ website so we can talk there." - 9 times out of its for<b> .

</font></b>On a rare occasional message, I actually do speak to people who are living and not wanting to know my personal details. I actually spoke to a couple of women this weekend. One informed me that because I take care of my folks, she wanted nothing to do with me because she doesn't need the drama.
Another when I asked questions about her, she would never answer a single question and then asked me questions in return, which I answered, and then I asked the same question again, only to get asked another question. Add. Repeat. Add. Repeat. Which by the 4th time I asked this person the same question, (I asked her what neighborhood in Chicago she lived in, not her exact address) this person then asked me why it should matter since I've been on the site since 2007, another avoidance to answer my first question.
And yet another person in which I talked to and then when things were actually going to get serious, she ghosted me and wouldn't talk to me afterwards, because she probably got scared I was actually real and wanted to meet.

Three women, one too self absorbed in herself to deal with anything but herself, another who wanted to waste my time without answering any questions about her, and one that I believe was too scared when things got real.

This is why I ask questions guys and don't let the little head fool me into thinking everything is ok. When I first started here, that's how it was. I ignored the warning signs because I wanted to get laid. Now, older, wiser, smarter...I know better.

Just like the song from the Who, we won't get fooled again.

Of course, I'm fooling you, because I probably will get fooled again. I'm not perfect. No one is. We all make mistakes. But if you try to focus and attention to what words people say here when they talk to you, like bad, broken English or improper spelling, you can sniff out the fakes faster than premature ejaculator. Just use your big brain to stay focused and attention to what people actually say, you can keep yourself protected.

And that is no joke.

Thanks for reading! Peace!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


dogslife2live01 71M

4/3/2019 12:18 pm

" Question on doing the cam verification? How do you go about doing or asking that? What I mean is, how do you go about asking someone politely to verify themselves on cam? That might be easier to do then asking questions and me doing it old school. Some great advice by the way! I never thought of that."

you just ask straight " do you mind if we get on can for a bit... just to see we are who we say we are"
if they are real they usually do not mind, if they are not the person in their photo, or their picture was taken with a kodak browning... they will have 101 excuses for not getting on can. the ones that say they don't cam, juts tell then that cam are not for sex only!
and don't waste anymore of your time or emotions.

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


whoisagentj replies on 4/4/2019 8:16 am:
Excellent advice! I'll look into trying that next time someone contacts me. Thanks dogslife2live01. I should have put that one together myself, don't know why I didn't.

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
4/1/2019 11:08 am

btw - next time you get asked how much money you make - tell them "None. Counterfeiting is illegal"

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


whoisagentj replies on 4/2/2019 6:39 am:
LOL! What I really need is one of those money trees where the money just sprouts from the ground and I could just rake up the dollar bills.

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
4/1/2019 11:07 am

You get asked all sorts of different questions than women do. I've never had anyone from this site ask me how much money I make. Thanks. I feel better.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


whoisagentj replies on 4/2/2019 6:37 am:
Well, I think it's because I have my info posted that I am a Data Center Engineer, and I will admit, there are some gold diggers out there thinking I'll be their sugar daddy. I mean, I'm doing ok, but I'm not making massive coin that I'd support someone else's lifestyle. Nor would I support someone else just for sex.
But yeah, I have actually gotten that asked of me at least a couple of times.

Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
4/1/2019 10:38 am

I like to give bots the wrong number, some business or number that costs money to contact....


whoisagentj replies on 4/1/2019 10:48 am:
You know, I could do that. Maybe I should look up local FBI, police, or numbers for the CIA or NSA and give them out instead! LOL!

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
4/1/2019 8:06 am

Love the elephant joke!! Happy April 1

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


whoisagentj replies on 4/1/2019 8:11 am:
Thanks poco! Dad jokes are my speciality!

dogslife2live01 71M

4/1/2019 6:44 am

it is far far better to be alone... than to be alone with no money
i have to agree with you use your upper brain the lower one one is a horny fool.
i go foe the cam verification and the quick meet... if they refuse to get on can there is a 50% chance they don't look like their picture, 50% chance they are not even the sex they claim to be
true my success rate is low... but then again i am not looking for the many. just the one!
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


whoisagentj replies on 4/1/2019 7:10 am:
Question on doing the cam verification? How do you go about doing or asking that? What I mean is, how do you go about asking someone politely to verify themselves on cam? That might be easier to do then asking questions and me doing it old school. Some great advice by the way! I never thought of that.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
4/1/2019 6:19 am

My sexy dad joke for April Fool's Day.

"What did the elephant say to the naked man?"

A - "How do you breathe through that tiny thing?"

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


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