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We men need Advice from the LADIES...  

whoisagentj 54M
661 posts
4/30/2019 8:33 am

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4/30/2019 11:39 am

We men need Advice from the LADIES...


Ok...so here's what I'm going to do. Since many guys here are basically clueless as to how to better improve their odds to meet a woman, whether it be here or on an online dating site I want every woman sees this to give their advice on what can better improve their odds to<b> meet a woman </font></b>here.

Ladies, if someone posts something here, and you agree with it, mention it again. For example, if a woman says.....hmmmmm, let me pick something obvious...like she doesn't want to see a dick picture in your main body of photos, and you agree with it, mention it again! This way the more mentions, the more we can establish seeing a dick picture here in the main body of photos is a BAD IDEA. Mention as much as you want to advise us in your comments, the more the merrier!

way we can hear what you ladies want from us men. On a side note...tomorrow, I'll be posting the same thing, just in reverse and I will ask the men what advice they want to give the women so they can increase their odds of meeting a man.

Now, the advice could be for meeting here, or on a dating website like Tinder or Bumble or other dating websites.

Ok...let's hear it! POST AWAY!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
4/30/2019 10:25 am

Agree with bbwdreamlover, NO dick pics! Classy torso picture, or photoshop a black circle over your face, but we women are a lot more interested in the face and maybe the body.

Don't mark face and classy torso pictures naughty. I will only see the gray blur and will assume it's your dick pic(s).

If you IM a woman, don't say "hi sexy/hi gorgeous." UGH. I won't answer those.

Because of my age, I'm not as swamped with messages so I will answer a simple "hi" or "how are you" but after that, say something to get the conversation going. You started it, be ready to carry it along. I'm not going to pick up and carry the conversation for you.


whoisagentj replies on 4/30/2019 11:39 am:
See guys, we got a trend here...all three women have said that dick pictures in your profile are not going to go well. So if you have one, you should probably get rid of them or move them to a private folder for LATER when you've established that she actually does want to see your dick for later.

I normally don't IM women, but I would probably be more polite than that. Which means guys you should as well.

And I do agree that once a conversation has been started, be prepared to actually have something to say. My advice would be to ask some getting to know you questions to help break the ice.

Thank you Fresno!

bbwdreamlover 49F

4/30/2019 8:47 am

Have a face pic , if you dont want to put a face pic on your profile , put up a classy sexy body pics .Read profiles if you can to see if you have common interest before sending a message.when you send a message say hi and something that is from the profile that is common to both parties


whoisagentj replies on 4/30/2019 8:54 am:
All of this is sound advice.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
4/30/2019 8:34 am

I want to hear all of your advice, even the most obvious simple pieces of advice! POST IT ALL HERE!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


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