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MEN!!! Help give your advice to the ladies!  

whoisagentj 54M
663 posts
5/1/2019 6:44 am

Last Read:
5/2/2019 8:07 am

MEN!!! Help give your advice to the ladies!


OK so YESTERDAY....I posted a blog post in which I asked the ladies to post their advice to us men. The #1 one thing they said was to keep the dick pictures away on your profile as they didn't want to see them until much, much, later. So if you have a dick picture in your profile, take it and put it in a private folder for later<b> viewing </font></b>and AFTER she asks for one.

So....now the ladies had their turn to offer us advice, I think turnabout is fair . What I need now is for the guys to offer their views on what the ladies need to do with their profiles. For example...I'll just throw one out there as a hypothetical bit of advice...

Having a decent camera to take photographs! I've seen some photographs on here and some of you ladies are taking crappy photographs of yourself with 1 or 2 megapixel cameras, which look so grainy and shitty, when featured here, they look like crap. I understand cameras are expensive. I get it. But if you want to take a good photograph of yourself, it's time to upgrade your cellphone or camera and take some better photographs of yourself!

Ok now 's been said, MEN...lay it on them. Whether it's being truthful, taking up to date photographs instead of ones have been taken - years ago, or any advice for this site here or any dating site, post your advice for the ladies here! I want to here it all. If you think women should reply to emails, advice to better improve the ladies chances of meeting guys...any advice you think it pertinent, post it here!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


simcoecurious 58M
68 posts
5/1/2019 7:22 am

Definitely agree with Domforsub1962 it would be nice if they were verified so you dont waste time with all fakes . I am trying myself but my pic gets turned down.


whoisagentj replies on 5/1/2019 8:33 am:
Well the rules for getting confirmed are that you have to take a photo with your face in the picture and then hold up a sign with your account name. For me, I did this, and then afterwards deleted the picture after I got the confirmed status. You do not have to keep the picture in your photos to keep. I had to do this a couple of times because the lighting in the photo wasn't good and it made the writing on the sign not legible, so I had to take a couple of photos before the site could get my account approved.

Make sure to follow the instructions to the letter when taking a photo to confirm your profile and you might have to take a couple of them before they can approve it.

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/1/2019 7:09 am

The type of woman I've found, and those who I'm attracted to... visit my blog. I'm looking for intelligent, humorous, playful ladies. If we engage in my blog (or there's) that'll tell me almost all, I need to know, except - looks and distance. I'll poke my head into her profile and take a look.
Her profile is complete and well written, expressive and witty with a couple of clear pics. Game on!
How do you project all those things on a profile? I don't know. Sometimes I'll just flat out message her, so we can chat. The process is efficient. Ya can't fake smart, can ya?
Oh fuck.... yes you can. I do it all the time... lol Oh crap.... I've just blown, my bullshit theory to bits! 😱

Yep... I have no advice... 😊👍


whoisagentj replies on 5/1/2019 8:29 am:
No, that's one of mine as well. If a local woman actually takes the time to read my blog, that is a huge turn on for me, because she actually took the time to not only read my profile, but check out my blog and comment.
If I see a woman that does that, then it's time to check out her profile and contact her. So ladies, if you are here and you are local and you see a man's blog here, I highly recommend to check it out!

Dom4Sub1962 61M

5/1/2019 7:02 am

Ladies SHOULD definitely get CONFIRMED , there are so many SCAM girls on sites that getting Confirmed saves guys the waste of time and possible waste of Money in buying useless ID's etc.
And this IS a major reason DECENT guys give up on these sites.
Remember ladies most online Dating sites CHARGE 'GUYS'
So the more you prove your REAL the more GUYS will stick around on them.
Thankyou Ladies and Happy Hunting.


whoisagentj replies on 5/1/2019 8:25 am:
If you are on this site, getting the CONFIRMED status is hugely important. I do think however that some women on here don't get a CONFIRMED status because they are in fact cheating on their husbands, and they are afraid to get the confirmed status on this site because if they get caught by their husbands, being confirmed on a website for adult dating when they are supposed to be faithful will be a dagger in the divorce proceedings.

However, if you are a single woman, or divorced, or widowed for that matter, and you are looking for a good man, getting confirmed just shows that you are committed to actually putting yourself out there that you are truly looking for a decent man. If you don't have it on there, then it decreases your chance for meeting decent men.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
5/1/2019 6:45 am

Let's hear your advice for the ladies, guys!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


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