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WOW....ok I didn't expect this to happen.
WOW....ok I didn't expect this to happen. Well...now I'm a bit befuddled. In regards to this past Sunday when I got stood up by a member here, I messaged her here to tell her how disappointed I was that she stood me up. However...yesterday, she got my message and read it, and messaged me back. "Hey, I very much appreciate for giving me benefit of doubt. Honestly, I came to the Starbucks on Sunday, since the FriendFinder-x gave me trouble I couldnt access or message you either. Regarding posting a blog I did and I didnt read any of your messages - as it wasnt inboxed. When I cleared the cache and reloaded the browser, all your messages are pouring in and I feel very disgusted. I am not what you think I am. All I can say now is "I apologize from the bottom of my heart" I do not know how to repair what went by but certainly agree with you that it went terribly wrong. Once again any amount of sorry's will not make you feel good but trust me. I do feel terrible and It wasn't intentional. " So...apparently she did go, and I somehow missed her as I was moving from two different Starbucks to see if she was at the other one. And thanks to FriendFinder-x, they fucked up my messages so she never got them, and she thought I stood her up, but once she refreshed her browser, all the messages I sent from last week came in. So thanks to FriendFinder-x, they helped fuck up our meet. So I made a judgement call after reading this, and I decided to give her another chance. Here's what I sent to her: Look...I'll be honest here. After taking some time to think about it, and reading your message, I feel I came down a bit hard on you. I believe people can make mistakes, and if you would like, I would be willing to give you a second chance, if you want it. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. However, that's up to you. And I think if you do want a second chance, then if you are willing, if you would like to give me your number, I'm willing to call you and we can make arrangements to set up a meet in which will work for both of us. What do you say? She still hasn't responded yet, but for now...but I'm willing to give this a second try if she is. I'm really not happy with FriendFinder-x, but what do you guys think? Should I give her a second chance if she asks for it? Or am I setting myself up for disappointment? |
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So both of you didnt know what Starbucks to meet at? You went to another one? I guess I am a bit baffled at that. But anyhow, hope you two can finally meet.
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Have plan c in place!! 1 more chance and that's it. Blaming the site, even with all it's poor tech issues,is not right. But at least she tried to apologize. Luck! (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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From past experience and knowing the ways and means of these sites, NEVER trust the site to make these connections, as Redrock and others have said exchange phone numbers, have a simple conversation, at least some text off site, good luck , give her one more strike, then call her out, don't go to three.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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5/11/2019 8:08 am |
be patient - if nothing happens - make a plan b and a plan c- if those fail - go fishing- lol
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I use K ik for further communication exchange...i don't have to give my real phone number from the get-go...but i don't have to worry about someone has my phone number, and the things did not go well...but that's just me...of course, there are people who don't do k ik at all, so there is that, too...but
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5/11/2019 7:27 am |
exchange numbers... that way you can stop thinking and start acting like take life in your hands don't depend on FriendFinder-x to do everything there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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its a good idea if your actually meeting to go ahead and exchange cell numbers internet is notoriously unreliable period and so is the IM etc here
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The problem is neither of you spoke on the phone - you know actual voices speaking to each other. In business it is referred to as 'due diligence'. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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5/11/2019 6:30 am |
That’s why we never rely on our inbox messages if we plan to meet..We never meet without first exchanging numbers first..
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5/11/2019 6:26 am |
Well from my experience on this site i'd take it with a pinch of salt, I joined and get inbox after inbox from the usa when i'm in the uk and then I get a few inbox from the uk who say they are in my city but turn out to be more than 3 hrs away? not sure if the women are charged to join the site but it's the usual BS milk a guys bank account for diddly squat, but what can you do! if you think your in then play to win. good luck or a miracle we all need one on here brother!.
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5/11/2019 6:20 am |
so if she cleared her cache so messages could come in how is it the sites fault ? I clear at the end of every session here ..if some dont and that fails to let messages pass or not get sent then i would say its the persons fault , more than anything.
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Not sure what to think here....
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