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Folks I got a real winner here today! (Because these things come in 3 parts/PART 3!!!)  

whoisagentj 54M
662 posts
6/17/2019 7:01 am

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6/24/2019 8:44 am

Folks I got a real winner here today! (Because these things come in 3 parts/PART 3!!!)

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pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
6/19/2019 4:58 pm

I don't know of anybody on here that at some point hasn't gotten some type of harassing annoying e-mail.


whoisagentj replies on 6/24/2019 8:44 am:
I'd think everyone has. Sometimes this community can be very toxic.

RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
6/17/2019 5:44 pm

Oh where do I begin...
(wicked grin)

I had this one guy, who left messages in my inbox here, and was very... pushy.

He said he lived "right around the corner", well actually five miles away, and seemed okay at first. No picture, and was reluctant to even give me one when I asked for it. He said "What about the days when two strangers met, sight unseen? You don't need my picture, just meet me here at such-and-such restaurant, we can have some drinks, then go across the street to X Motel."

Uhh, no. That last sentence alone gave me a creepy vibe. Can we say unfavorable, as in stalker/serial killer/pick a description? Not going to happen.

I was courteous to him in replies, asked to get to know me here first,and told him bottom line that I'm not going to a place to meet someone "sight unseen", especially to a place I haven't been to at all, regardless if it's in my town or not. This place he talked about is more of a bar that serves food rather than a restaurant like he so claimed. Not my kind of meeting place, thank you. Also told him that I felt we were not a match (nicely, because of creepy vibe), and wished him well in his search. I went on with my life.

Or so I thought. Two weeks later, he sends me another inbox note...

"I don't understand why you won't meet me- I'm a nice guy. Like what you want. I will do (blah blah blah and yadda yadda yadda) to you for as long as you want. Let's meet at (the bar), have a few drinks (again!), and go to X Motel. You haven't met me- how you know I'm not for you?" (sic)

My reply again was "Sorry, but as I stated before, I don't feel that we are a match. I am not going to change my mind no matter how persistent you are. I wish you well in your search and have a nice day."

Replies instantly back: "Give me one reason why not?"

I said: "Fine. #1- you have no picture whatsoever in your profile. I have listed in mine that if you contact me, please have a current picture. You chose to ignore that. #2- you are not within the age range that I'm interested in (he's 60). I have that listed in my profile as well. #3- I have told you, twice already, that I don't feel we are a match; hence I'm not interested in meeting. #4- you're VERY presumptuous in stating that I WOULD be interested in you SIGHT UNSEEN if I were to just show up at this place, have a few drinks (as you so call it, which I don't do, as stated within my profile), and then go with you "across the street to X Motel". Those are four good reasons, would you like to know more?"

So no further contact for about a month... until a few days ago.

"Hi. I like your profile. Here's a picture of me with my buddies. We live close by want to meet at (the place)? We can get to know each other, and go across to X Motel. I will (yeah yeah yeah) for a long time. I love to do that. Youd like for me to do it to you." (sic)

Ugh... seriously?!? Picture he sent had no indication of who exactly he was in a group of five men, let alone was so gorram small that any chance of enlarging it made it too pixelated to view.

I didn't even bother. Guy was creepy from the get-go, and even though he did send me "his picture", still came across as not who I wanted to deal with.

Final note: "This will be the last time I'm going to say this to you, as you have chosen to ignore all other replies. I have been courteous, but that doesn't seem to get through to you. I have told you, three times now and given you answers as to why not, that I am not interested in meeting you. We ARE NOT a match. I have told you before, also, that I am not going to change my mind, no matter what. No means just that- NO. Please do not make any more attempts to contact me; if you do, you will be blocked and your profile reported. Goodbye."

Normally what happens after I've had to send a final reply is that I get called every disgusting name that a Man-Boy can think of. All because he can't take the word "no" as an answer. That didn't happen this time; he was blocked from further contact to inbox. Here's to hoping he doesn't figure out how to work the IM. I dodn't wish to deal with him anymore.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


whoisagentj replies on 6/18/2019 6:24 am:
I'm sorry that had to happen to you. And that happens to guys as well. Most people, to put it bluntly are mentally challenged. Here's a scary thought...the average IQ of a person in this world is from 90-110. If you think that's scary, there are more stupid people than intelligent people. 68% of the population on this Earth go from an IQ of 110 to lower. That's 2/3rds of the world's population.

Which means that only 32 percent of the world is considered above average. So we deal with a lot of stupid people which are manipulative and ignorant and downright stupid.

But even still, there are some people that think that the world revolves around them. They feel that people are put on this Earth to serve their needs. It's all about them. And that's what kills me the most, because we're supposed to be here on this Earth to make it a better place, not have people here on this planet serve our own base needs.

In my situation, I'm all about giving people a chance until they cross me repeatedly. This person in my blog did that. Now they will suffer the penalty of being outed and shamed for being an asshole.

firebird9743 103M

6/17/2019 11:56 am

My favorite are the ones who give you a number to call them in Alabama or Georgia but its a California or Alaska area code.


whoisagentj replies on 6/17/2019 1:54 pm:
Well those are people using the TEXT NOW subscriber or Google number. I don't mess with these people, because they want me to trust them, yet they are giving me a fake number.

Sorry, I don't care what the reason is for using that, guys who are smart won't mess with you if that's the case. It's easy to reverse lookup an area code and determine if you are in the same area or not, and if it doesn't match the same area, I don't mess with people who can't trust me to give me their own number. Sorry, but that doesn't fly with me.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/17/2019 10:00 am

She is 6’2” in profile, her pic is reported as a porn star, so pic is probably stolen. I do like the idea of messing with them, string them along like kitty says, if you have the energy. Find a place in Georgia to wire money so she can fly out to visit. Tell her go there and wait, it will be there at a certain time. Watch her scramble to get “the money”. If she is in Ga, which I am sure she is not, she may rush over. Then tell her when it wasnt there, oh I am so sorry, I had the wrong location. You can go here for it, 50 miles away. Run her sorry ass all over the state.


whoisagentj replies on 6/17/2019 11:22 am:
That's funny as well! LOL!

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
6/17/2019 8:00 am

oh man......this is nuts . As long as you re having fun with it,, ok. For me....its wayyyyy too much energy spent on nonsense. Its obviously a scam, whomever it is ..cant speak or write and they are stealing someones pictures ..ugh. They are worthy of ignoring..id say ~~


whoisagentj replies on 6/17/2019 8:47 am:
True, it has been some energy devoted to messing with this person. But sometimes, it can be entertaining. And I look at it this way...if I'm wasting their time, then it's time that I'm taking away from them bothering someone else.

57FredFred 67M  
752 posts
6/17/2019 7:46 am

You were civil to begin with and tried to be reasonable. Yes, play stupid games, win stupid prizes. We all have a breaking point, I don't blame you for stringing this fake along. Tough love has to be applied from time to time. Good job!


whoisagentj replies on 6/17/2019 7:52 am:
See it's that part of me that wants to be nice to everyone, but then people push me to my limit and I can then get angry. It's like the Hulk...you wouldn't want to see me when I get angry.

bitchkitty2017 71F

6/17/2019 7:42 am

lol I get the part where you want to play with them seeing they arent from an English speaking part of the world..next time do like i do when you get someone who just dont take no for an answer..they obviously are looking for a sucker who will give them money ...I tell them that i am packing a suitcase for a weeks trip to pick up my lottery winnings ...I have to drive a long way so i have to pack in order to stay over there for awhile...lol When money is mentioned i can almost see the wheels turning in their little blessed heads....Play with them for awhile like they do play with peoples heads trying to mess you up..it does work...I say i gotta leave my phone with a friend for that week and cannot get in touch with anyone....Then they get real desperate and shoot you emails or ask for contact...before i leave for my " trip " I block them..ha ha ha


whoisagentj replies on 6/17/2019 7:50 am:
Oooohhhh! That is deliciously evil. I love that! LOL!

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
6/17/2019 7:02 am

Oh I forgot to post this last part, this is what I just replied back to her...

Well if you are referring to you, then yes, I most definitely won't see your pussy because it's in Georgia and I'm in Chicago, and you wouldn't have driven or flown up here to show it anyway. The funny thing is even if you did come up here, I still wouldn't have wanted you anyway. You are a ignorant person, and I don't fuck stupid people.

Have a nice life and please I know you've been crying the past couple of days knowing you could never have a fantastic man such as myself, but it's ok, you'll find another stupid person to scam one day.


Who can you call on to save the day?

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