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Have you looked in the mirror lately?
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Have you looked in the mirror lately? Well, Have you?! Really?! Then please explain a few things. I enjoy browsing profile, and I love it when I see a profile of people who havent looked in the mirror, or at least they havent been Honest with themselves in the mirror! Come on people! We all have scars, stretch marks, tattoo's, injuries, extra pounds, that we deal with everyday. When you look in your mirror, do you/can you see those extra pounds, those marks that have made us who we are? Are they something YOU/WE can do something about, or are they something we/you have to live with? I see a man who has a forehead that is growing larger in the typical V pattern, I see a bit of a belly (not extra weight, more like not tone), I know I'm NOT, perfect, NOT even close! But at least when I look in my mirror, I am HONEST with myself, I see my flaws, I carry some as reminders, some with pride, others I know I / Me / Myself can change, or do something about, and it is up to ME to quit blaming others, or life for them! I either have to get off my ass and fix those flaws I have control over, and learn to live with those I cant! How hard is that? For me CAN'T wasnt something in my vocabulary, my father always taught me CAN'T never did anything! So I did/do need to figure out how I CAN fix what I dont like about myself, or own up to them and live with them! SO I ask you again, HAVE YOU BEEN HONEST WITH YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR?! WELL HAVE YOU?! If you said YES, then it's time YOU are HONEST in your profile! If you are MORE than 20pounds over weight, then you're NOT a few extra pounds, or average, if you are more than 40pounds over, then you're NOT large, and if you are more than 60pounds over, you're ample, no two ways about it! Dont misunderstand, there are those men who like PLUS sized women, and so long as you've been HONEST in your profile, and with ME, I'm willing to forgive/overlook/deal with those/that flaw! But if you try to hide it, and then meet me in person, I'll see it as a lie, and I dont deal with lyars! I'll turn and walk away. If you cant be honest with me over simple issues, are you going to be HONEST with me over important issues? Well are you?! Keep in mind FIRST IMPRESSIONS are LASTING impressions! So, why are you still reading? Go! Do it! Look in the mirror! Now say Hello! Take a good look, be honest, do you like what you see? Well do you? Can you change what you dont like? Can you accept it? Can you live with it? Can you smile and walk away? I'm waiting and watching! |
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OK Iron - I looked in the mirror and I stand by my profile. I do not always like what I see but I can live with it. I could change what I do not like and I may do that by joining Yoga like I did today. Now can you come and watch? I am waiting!  Happy now?  BehindMyBlues
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7/4/2011 9:10 am |
Very well said...and I agree. While I will not post pics of "My flaws" I do tell about them because Hey unless your blind then when we meet ummm they are going to know! Even if blind, they can feel. Very interesting look on things....No one is responsible for you but you. And while there are things I would like to change about myself "physically" I have to question why do so? To make a better impression on someone else? To be more attractive? Am I not the same person at any weight? The answer is I choose to deal with it and If a man only wants me because I am pretty or have the greatest Body...then He is NOT the guy for me. A woman has many layers, and peeling through the outer one is just the beginning. Everyone has a "type" and I am no exception there are men that I am simply NOT attracted to for what ever reason. But no matter how "hot" he is or how "big" his cock is...unless he treats me the way I want to be treated I am not interested. I agree with you..just be yourself and be honest and chemistry is either there or it isn't...
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