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If they only knew.  

hornyguyMN 43M
2356 posts
6/12/2011 12:30 pm
If they only knew.

Last week I was talking with my uncles. They started asking about my trip in August to see some of you (although they think I'm<b> meeting friends </font></b>from college). They were mainly asking about price, which eventually brought up the fact that I was sharing a room with someone so that we could both keep costs down.

Well eventually one of them made the comment that I was turning into a "real swinger". I just laughed it off, but the whole time I was thinking "if they only knew".

Now to be fair I'm not sure I would fit anyones definition of a swinger, at least not yet. If I'm wrong about that feel free to let me know.

I've written before that most of the people that know me in real life think I'm as "vanilla" as you can get. And the uncles I was talking too are no different. Sometimes I wonder what people would think if they knew the kinks I had or the things I wanted to try.

My list of kinks includes, but is not limited too:

Bondage, spanking, orgasm control, D/s, exhibitionism, voyeurism.

Things I would like to try but would not consider a kink include:

Threesomes, group sex, fingering a woman to orgasm somewhere public without people knowing, either me or my partner talking on the phone with someone (who doesn't know what is happening) while having sex. If you want to see the full list you can check out My sexual bucket list

What can I say I'm open minded.


(But is this the face of someone that you would expect to want to spank you)?

How secretive are you with your kinks and or life style choices? Do you have any kinks that you don't tell the people around you that aren't "lifestyle friends"? If your comfortable sharing here what are they?

rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
6/12/2011 1:37 pm

its always the shy ones you gotta be careful with
I share whatever, I dont really care what people think of me.
you already know some of mine, I've blogged about them

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


hornyguyMN replies on 6/12/2011 4:42 pm:
Yep it is always the shy ones that can be the most fun if you take the time to get them to open up to you in "that way".

sugar4you1980 43F
5077 posts
6/12/2011 8:50 pm

It's such a cute innocent face though

cough*gasp*sputter

I am pretty sure I don't even have to ask that question ... I'm an

The most important thing you can wear is the expression on your face!


hornyguyMN replies on 6/12/2011 9:01 pm:
Well thank you Princess. That might be the nicest thing you've ever said about my face. At least too my face.

But ummm what question do you not have to ask? or do you mean you don't have to answer the question?

Yeah your an angel alright. An angel with horns holding your halo in place.

Vixn_Vella 49F  
14911 posts
6/13/2011 9:44 am

You really do look to sweet to do anything deviant!

Pictures are deceiving though aren't they...

I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


hornyguyMN replies on 6/13/2011 10:26 am:
My point exactly.

LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
6/15/2011 6:41 pm

That's a good picture of you!

As open as I am here about my lifestyle and activities, all of that side of me is totally closed off from family, work and vanilla friends. I keep that totally separate!

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

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hornyguyMN replies on 6/15/2011 6:58 pm:
I can understand why. I don't think I would ever volunteer any of that information too any family, coworkers or vanilla friends. But if asked I wouldn't lie about it.

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