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Blogs > hornyguyMN > Inside my head

2016 New Years Resolutions  

hornyguyMN 43M
2355 posts
12/31/2015 6:57 pm
2016 New Years Resolutions

I should start this off by saying that I hate, hate, HATE New Year's resolutions. Let's face it they rarely ever seem to come to pass. We do well with them for a couple weeks or even months then laps back into skipping out on the gym or eating all that yummy food that is terrible for us. Because of this I haven't made a resolution since my college years.

Why write this? Because I think I'll be making a couple this year. More specifically I'll be making one that has two or three parts to it. Since they are things I'm already trying to do and haven't had much luck at I figure I'm not jinxing it by calling them resolutions.

Resolution 1: Date more.

I haven't been on a date since March of 2014. Since then I have asked a few people out each year and been turned down (or not given and answer which is another way of saying no). Since dating more is a goal, that means asking more people out. Which is hard for me (introvert problems), but I need to get better at it. I also need to be more willing to accept help from friends with this. I have a habit of being stubborn and thinking I should be able to do it on my own.

Resolution 2: More sex.

Let's just say I haven't had sex in a long time. This needs to change, I never have been a fan of celibacy. So if I go on more dates I figure sex is more likely to happen, with luck I'll find a steady date or two that will also turn into a regular sex life .... that would be awesome.

Resolution 3: More Kinky play time!

Again I haven't done a scene since early in 2013, so yeah again this needs to change. I've done what I can to soak up as much knowledge about my preferred kinks, now I need more hands on experience with them to get better. But I often see myself as being stuck in a catch 22. I need to find a partner to get better, but people want to play with someone who is already skilled so I need to be better to get a partner ... yikes it makes my head hurt.

So those are my goals for the next year, will they come to pass? Only time will tell. But in order to have a chance I know I need to get better at putting myself out there and picking up when someone might be interested (I suck at both). So we'll see how I do this year.

Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
12/31/2015 7:01 pm

 Happy New Year to U.


hornyguyMN replies on 1/1/2016 10:33 am:
Same to you.

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