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Judge gently if you can !  

_JKH_ 70M
1267 posts
7/22/2009 9:37 am

Last Read:
4/8/2019 9:49 am

Judge gently if you can !

Don't find fault with the man that limps
Or stumbles along the road.
Unless you have worn the shoes he wears
Or struggled beneath his load.

There may be tacks in his shoes that hurt
Though hidden away from view.
Or the burden he bears placed on your back
Might cause you to stumble too.

Don't sneer at the man who's down today
Unless you have felt the blow
That caused his fall or felt the shame
That only the fallen know.

You may be strong but still the blows
That was his if dealt to you
In the selfsame way, at the selfsame time
Might cause you to stagger too.

Don't be too harsh with the man that sins
Or pelt him with Word or stone
Unless you are sure - yea, doubly sure -
That you have no sins of your own.

For you know, perhaps,
If the tempter's voice should whisper as soft to you
As it did to him when he went astray
It might cause you to falter too.


Pic taken at Bien Hoa, South Vietnam, August 1973


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ineedyounow55 65F
826 posts
7/22/2009 10:47 am



Kurt,
You are never alone and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
So often we look at a calendar of days as merely a symbol of the passage of time. We forget why we are on this earth. We forget that there is a reason for all of the pain and all of the struggle. We forget that we were put on earth to learn something. If everything were perfect in this life, we would never learn anything new. We would not be able to elevate our spirits through the events that happen to us.

I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!


_JKH_ replies on 7/22/2009 5:03 pm:
Thanks for the kind words gal.

_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/22/2009 1:30 pm

Thanks an_angel_4u, ineedyounow55 and ntbling24 for your comments.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/22/2009 5:03 pm

Thanks for posting SouthernGirl1955!

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FlowerBloomer07 69F

7/22/2009 9:43 pm

Wow!


Amante_D_noche 58F

7/23/2009 1:46 am

That was beautiful _JKH_ !!!


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/23/2009 5:05 am

Thanks FlowerBloomer07, Xanadu352 and Amante_D_noche for your comments.

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Cutabs 53M
133 posts
7/23/2009 10:10 pm

Wish you well!


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/24/2009 5:29 am

Thanks Cutabs!

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usabell 84F

7/24/2009 12:54 pm

Just beautiful. Thanks for posting it!
C

Happy people, don't have everything; they make the most of everything coming along their way.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/24/2009 1:10 pm

Thank you usabell.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/24/2009 6:51 pm

That's right superflirt88. Thanks for posting.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
7/28/2009 4:21 pm

Thank you tulips & okeydokey.

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Juggs_N_Speed 52F
96 posts
8/9/2009 11:46 am

This reminds me of my older brother that I'm sure is living on the streets somewhere. We lost track of him five years ago at his choosing. I miss him and love him and I want to help but I don't know where he is. I wish he would make contact.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
8/10/2009 4:06 pm

Juggs_N_Speed, I do hope he makes contact soon. Bless your heart.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
9/22/2009 7:28 am

Thanks for your comment charmers5512.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
12/6/2009 2:26 pm

Thanks for [posting deliciouslysmart.

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Liv___Inlavalova 50M

12/28/2009 6:05 pm

Oh great,...now I confused

Copy this signature, and I SUE!!


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
12/29/2009 6:39 am

Thanks for posting Liv.

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SternendienerSE 58M

1/11/2010 9:48 pm

Hello JLH. Somewhat confused I started this handle hoping to find FriendFinder-x in Swedish, and then deleted it. Later I discovered the language preferences. Asking to have my handle back I was given this one.

I have actually diverted a malicious attack on you.

Remember that this is about constructive trolling. What irritates me is that a question like "I have had 22600 views, is this normal" is met with a lot of crap. Then I state the actual, and that is denied and so on...

Now I see that this method would not be fair unless one's ethics are impeccable. This trolling business could also advert dishonest people and I hope that my "Troll's Corner" will be an secretly accepted part of FriendFinder-x.

Of course I might be wrong. But sexuality seems to be reserved for some people while others are denied since we can not accept the conventional terms.

I have recently been betrayed in love. But I expected it and she has probably done me a favour.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
1/12/2010 7:05 am

SternendienerSE, you need to invite me to the group.

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
1/15/2010 7:14 am

Yea, Hmmmmmmmmm!

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
2/27/2010 2:31 pm

Aw well !

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_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
4/2/2010 5:48 am

Thank you swimmingbird !

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ChatAndMore 58M

9/2/2010 6:14 pm

Very true words and not to be taken lightly.


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
9/2/2010 6:59 pm

That's right chat.

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