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Blogs > boodog50 > nuances of romance

Summer thoughts on oral sex  

boodog50 62M  
191 posts
6/21/2021 5:13 am
Summer thoughts on oral sex

It is a great start to summer Monday morning and I am sipping coffee and trying figure out the world of romance. One thing that comes to mind is ... why do people always say they perform oral sex in a world class fashion... now, this is both genders. Oral sex is a very personal part of romance and everybody enjoys different aspects and techniques.... so how can someone proclaim that they give the best oral sex... HMMM. BTW... The women that have told me they gave the best blow jobs very seldom lived up to their billing, and I would imagine that ratio is even worst with guys.... OK... back to daydreaming...

CL_Love 51M/50F
425 posts
7/28/2021 7:36 am

 I don't claim to give the best, but I do claim to have above average skills. I say this only because I have been told by many partners that it is true. I guess I don't know if they are just being kind with the idea that they want more of it or if they truly believe I am about the best they've ever had. I'd like to think they wouldn't use such superlatives if it weren't at least sort of true. I also know that I have studied the topic off and on in great detail reading men's thoughts about things that consistently improve a bj experience and have used my husband to test out various aspects of this research. He also has said that while I was never "bad" at them, I am "much better" at giving them now (age, practice, feedback, etc). But like much of lovemaking/sex, I suspect what is AMAZING for one man is just "good" for another. But I am a pleaser by nature and I think my enthusiasm for the act is a big part of it with everyone. I also recognize that I love long extended foreplay (kissing and touching, etc) and it can create a bit of an edging effect with men so that when they do finally cum in my mouth, they feel like their head has exploded.


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