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Clarifying the Difference Between A Daddy and Daddy Dom / Master Daddy
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Clarifying the Difference Between A Daddy and Daddy Dom / Master Daddy During a recent conversation with a friend I’ve noticed that it maybe too easy to separate the words Daddy and Dominant. In searching for the proper way to introduce an otherwise vanilla person to the dynamic one thing should never be misunderstood. Try not to let the cute names fool you, this isn’t just role play for the actual Dominant male who also practices the Daddy / life style by combining it into his BDSM related life style. Yes there are alpha males who like the role play alone, even some dominants, but for men like myself who love BDSM / Bondage and Disipline / Dominance and submission we tend to be both the Master / Dominant types as well Daddy. If we are good we are able to easily fluxuate between our roles as Master and Daddy to fully meet the needs of our submissive as needed. No matter how you slice it, this is still a relationship based upon Domination and submission, usually if not always including some sort of bondage or pain play. One way to describe choice within the world of D/s & BDSM is to make a comparison to ordering a burger or a pizza, the toppings are an incredibly personal thing. They very from person to person. Learning as much as you can should be your first step, search the web, pick up books, or join discussion groups. If research feels like a chore you may want to investigate your passion for a particular activity. Being an uninspired Dominant, means being ineffective and possibly unsafe. There many are ways to be a Daddy, or a submissive " little girl " for that matter, all as individual as the participants involved. For this and many other reasons I recommend completing a checklist such as the ones available online. To find one just Google Search: BDSM Checklist or Play Partner Check List. For many pain, in the right context, is most certainly connected with pleasure. Knowing a fair bit about anatomy and aftercare is not only important but for me falls right in with the " Safe, Sane and Consensual "<b> mantra. </font></b>This means know a bit about basic first aid, properly negotiating a scene prior to play, a safe word or gesture and having predefined limits. All of this means one thing, communication, without it things can quickly go from fun to scary, or even worse someone could get hurt. At least not in a way they were intending to be. Ok people, be well and play safe! Take this to heart Daddies and you littles. Be well, John |
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