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Whats wrong with me?
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Whats wrong with me? All I want in life is to find true happiness. I am average looking and have a great personality. Why are most of the guys I find liars and users? When I find one that isn't then they don't want me.... it makes you almost want to give up. It can't be that hard to be happy......I go on a regular dating site and attract old men and little boys. I go on a sex and swinger website and attract mostly the ones that want a for a night. I don't want that.... I want a nice guy that can be honest and truly likes me for me no matter what the flaws and makes me feel great in every way!!! Please tell me thats out there somewhere........ |
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hmm, looking over your profile you seem like a perfectly good female. guess you gotta wade thru the trash to find the diamond. just hang in there and believe it will get better. 
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2/17/2008 12:42 pm |
I haven't the foggest idea. You're a very attractive woman. I'm sure there is a nice guy out there for you. I would go for you but I'm one of those old guys you're talking about. Smile sweetheart, He's out there somewhere
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It's out there, somewhere...   
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I don't have any answers for you,,,, sorry. Still working on it myself. Button
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He is out there, as frustrating as it is, it's a numbers game, you need to see a lot of people to find a good fit, now, if I could just convince myself of that.
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2/20/2008 10:02 am |
Stopping by to say hi - but if you would like a regular...check out my ad...who knows?
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2/21/2008 3:55 pm |
Hi, I don't see a thing wrong with you at all. Your profile is very nice and sweet which tells what kind of a person you really are. I'm a single guy and I ask myself that question all the time. "What's wrong with me?" I'm not looking for a one night stand or a slut. Just a great lady to share thoughts and special time with. There are alot of guys that give us men a bad name but believe me we're not all the same. You'll find that true love in your life and once you do you will for sure know it. I know I am younger but have done alot of things in my life and knows how to treat and respect a great lady like yourself. Some say I'm just to nice and sincere but hey that's me. So to sum it up there is nothing wrong with people like us were just smarter than the average joe blow looking for a good time. We know what we want and they don't which is why they play the "Game". Hope this helps you out sexy lady and hope you have a great evening.
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2/27/2008 5:08 pm |
Read your mail sweetie, I am here. p
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3/3/2008 2:36 pm |
I see nothing wrong with you, like I have said to you before. Your attributes are numerous. The problem here is people fear honesty because of the concept of honesty itself. Preferring to live in the moment for what they can get through smoke and mirrors rather than being upfront about their views. They cannot handle rejection, and notches on their post somehow reinforces their manhood. So they paint the perfect picture, molded by society to tell you what you want to hear instead of what you deserve to hear. Keep your heart open, all is not lost, the one you seek exists, as it does for all of us.....there is just more crap to wade through now. Sending love....J
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3/7/2008 6:37 pm |
What's wrong with you? Nothing. It would be easy to think something is wrong with you so you could have an explanation for what's happening or not happening. These sites are a catch 22. Just realize that you aren't alone and it happens to more of us than not. Be patient, if a guy doesn't want you, you shouldn't want him. Easy to say, but in the end they aren't worth the energy. Cream always rises, and when you're at the top, it takes some time for others to catch up to ya! 
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3/9/2008 1:23 pm |
Thank you all for the kind words and honesty!!!!
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3/13/2008 3:03 pm |
hi all...all people are different in thair own way....no one is better....no one is worse....what I'm trying to say is ...we all have strong points,and we all have week points.....to find happiness...you need balance....two people that checkmate each others strong,and weak points....that like the same things in life.....hmm....so you just havent found that someone... yet...thats all...
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3/13/2008 6:56 pm |
good things come to those who wait.
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The whole one night business is rather stupid. Sex is somehow communication and as a good conversation it gets better the more often it is shared with the same person. Those who look for just one night do not have more to say than what might with luck fill that time 
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4/28/2008 7:36 pm |
Don't give up. The more you are authentic, the better the man you will attract. If you think of yourself as average, then you will be just average. What are your strengths. Work those. Best foot forward...don't worry about what isn't perfect. Johnny
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I wonder the same thing about woman they looking for the hot body guys and that im not lol guess it happens to both sexes but its harder to get a female to give a chance than it is for guy to take a chance. Life sucks sometimes but it is what it is and it goes on. Kiss and huggs to all the ladies
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6/27/2008 8:17 am |
It could be right a round the corner from u, but u over look it.
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8/27/2008 10:22 am |
This is difficult, because no one can answer what is wrong, or right, for that matter without knowing you. The fact that you canonly find guys interested in sex on a sex hook up site isn't surprising, it's expected. Anyone who comes to this site to find true love is setting themselves up for disappointment. You might be the most wonderful woman in the world, but no one can know that from a profile and some pics. I can tell you that you are an extremely attractive woman. I can't speak to the regular dating sites, but there are as many woman losers out there as there are men. Finding someone to be happy with for the rest of your life is no easy task. It might come along if you stop looking so hard. You might want to look at the type of men you choose, too. I don't know if that's a problem, but alot of woman constatnyl pick the wrong type of guys.. over and over. Thye pick the same type of guy and then can't understand why it doesn't work. The definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. You seem like a really nice woman, so is there something wrong with you? That isn't a question for us lunkheads that don't know you... only you can answer that. The odds are you already know the answer, but do you have the courage to face the it? There isn't one of us that couldn't benefit from some self-examination. In fact, I think I will go and have a session myself...
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10/2/2008 4:53 am |
I agree with most of the points written by "stndbehindu"..Just a few minor ones to add/elaborate - Men by nature (remember why men are from Mars and Women from venus?) want to have sex with as many women as possible. Women want to select the Best not all!..now you see - what is left for those men that are "not the Best"..a bit of lie and cheat here and there sometimes put them on an even footing. They don't mean no harm..LOL... as "stndbehindu" said - the guy sitting in the corner un-noticed may afterall be the one who is much more suited than the one who tunrs around the heads..think over it..
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11/15/2008 11:54 am |
Thanks everyone....I needed to hear all the comments. Good luck to all of you as well!!!
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1/4/2009 7:15 pm |
well i know you def a hottie great pic btw and take care =)
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1/11/2009 4:08 am |
well sexy, your not special.so get rid of that mentality,"something wrong w/ me).are you that special that GOD decided to deny you the love you want?fuck w/ your needs and wants?ofcourse not...so nothings literally wrong w/ ya...also,"a watched pot never boils"...when you want it to)..BUT IT WILL(so stop lookn and njoy what you can about life...friends/family/the freedom to njoy ur life w/o someone up ur ass...lol)...someone made a good point in one of the other responses..usually we all know what's wrong w/ us...some can't face it,or too lazy to change it...for yourself(never for other people)...mostly though,you cant be on a swinger site talkn about finding happiness...you find that out in life,not online...which sum hv 4gottn how to do...GET THE FUCK OUTSIDE PEOPLE AND SAY HI TO SOMEONE!!!!!!
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3/5/2009 2:50 pm |
Hello there Ms. Sumpinspeshal, I just had to write, albeit, on a computer. However, I'd say that we are very close to being exactly what each others looking for. No, I'm not perfect by any manner or standards. Its all in my heart to please, a LADY such as yourself, to have & try to instill within Y.O.U. that sense of purpose that U long & desire for. Love You Craig T. (Levi445)
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4/6/2009 5:27 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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5/12/2009 8:35 pm |
Girl, we need to start a group! I am in the same boat, except I am heavy and am VERY self-consious about my weight. And no matter how clear you state in your profile what you are looking for, the NSA guys are going to be the ones that contact you. I have been on a few regular sites, and I have more of a chance of meeting someone on this site than anyone on any of the other sites. What is wrong with us wanting to find a soul mate on a sex site?
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