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A lot of baloney going on  

indymanandwife0 50M/49F
303 posts
2/4/2009 4:41 pm
A lot of baloney going on


Baloney---Noun

1. Slang. foolishness; nonsense.

My wife tells me about a lot of the stuff going on here on the site. I don't understand why there is so much drama. I know being grown doesn't equal being an adult. Maybe I have higher expectations for people than I should. I just know that hearing about all of the sabre rattling and peacock strutting that goes on in the groups on here is crazy. I don't know what people think talking crap to other people on the boards here accomplishes. This is a place where adults are supposed to get to know each other and meet and see if there is more. It is not a place for a bunch of red assed monkeys to puff up their chests and walk around throwing coconuts.

While I am on the topic, It bothers me when people say FriendFinder-x is a swingers site. Yes it is for swingers. But if you read the black words right up at the top left of your screen you will see that it says "Swingers, Free Adult Chat & Adult Personals Site". I get tired of hearing people go on and on about "the lifestyle" and the fact that people on here are not freaks or swingers or live up to whatever standard they think they have and have randomly set for others. If you look up swinging there are many different definitions. There are also a ton of single men and single women that are looking for a variety of different things. Not everyone wants an orgy, a full swap, or whatever someone else's expectation or definition of this site and swinging is. There are not a lot of places in our uptight country that allows people to let their guard down and cut through the bullshit that is meeting and dating someone that is probably as horny as you are, but are afraid of the social expectations that restrict the way you can go about finding partners. So to all the single girls that just want dick and no pussy. All the single guys that want pussy and no dick. All of the couples that just want women and not a full swap. Rock on. To everyone else that fits into the other categories-- Rock on. Let's just get along on here and keep your opinions and expectations to yourself.

Whew. That was a bunch. Glad I got that out. LOL

philome1 80M
229 posts
2/4/2009 4:50 pm

YOU ARE RIGHT 100%. I completely agree with you.
You need to be good to you. Build yourself a house with a great big front porch and a basement. Then put in a WHINE CELLAR.

Knowledge, Experience, Patience.
Philome1


mikeandann4fun 60M/57F  
258 posts
2/4/2009 7:26 pm

Absolutely! Indyman -- YOU ROCK!

xox
Ann

Be sure to check out our group: Naughty and Nice Northside


fuckmelongandhad 53F

2/10/2009 9:23 am

Way to get down with your bad self!!!! I can just see the tension ease of of you from getting that off your chest! And I would like to add that just because someone says they are open to a possibility, means just that. The mind is opening to acceptance. Not all systems go, full steam ahead, saddle up cowboy! I think the world would be a better place if we just accepted people for who and where they are, instead of trying to force a square peg into a round hole. Oh dear, am I channeling you?! Shew, I feel better.

"...Take me as you find me. All my fears and failures. Fill my life again..." From Mighty to Save


pleasantpeace 69M
135 posts
4/6/2009 5:45 pm

a smart man. he got that way listening to his beautiful wife. the short shit. one day i will get another bear hug.

give her a kiss for me.

{=}

got anytime this week--feel up to a little time on the pistol range?


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