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Did You Know I Heart Hot Sex ?
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Did You Know I Heart Hot Sex ? Have you ever been out somewhere like a party, restaurant or something and noticed someone at another table and they have this look in their eyes, a certain aura about them? You can't quite put your finger on what exactly it is about them, but you're sure it's something different and exciting. The person doesn't have to be model good looking, sometimes the exact opposite may be the case, they just have that certain twinkle in their eyes. You may look around to see if anyone else has noticed any of this and is watching them too, but nope, nobody is, it's just you. This would be the "I heart hot sex" look. I can pick the sex freak out of a crowd every single time. Periodically, a fellow sex freak will recognize me as one of their own. And no, it's not because i've pulled my dress over my head while dancing on a bar. I have a deceptively innocent exterior, so i'm always impressed when I get fingered as a sex freak. (intentional pun) I've tried to discuss this with "normal" people and they have no idea what i'm talking about. It's kinda like that movie about the undercover aliens and only they could recognize each other. Same principle here, I guess. So is it just me? Do I notice these things simply because i'm a die hard people watcher? Have you ever picked a "I heart hot sex" person out of a crowd? Did anything happen as a result of them being found out? Come For The Booty, Stay For The Brains |
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You come up with great blog subjects; only problem is, unless a woman blatantly comes on to me, I usually can't figure out when an innocent looking woman is a sex addict, or has a strong sexual appetite, such as myself. As a matter of fact, I can't tell you how often I've found out - years later - that a beautiful woman who seemed perfectly innocent "had the hots" for me, and wanted to "fuck me silly"... Even more distressing, they will usually confide these desires to gay friends of theirs...! And these gay friends keep the secret (bastards!), when they could be contributing to everyone's fantasies!  To our gay friends: don't hold this valuable information to yourself. Don't wait for five years to tell us "so and so" was dying to get in the sack with us! 
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2/6/2009 12:33 pm |
Sadly, I don't think I'm good at this, although I have had some success in this area with women I've met in Tantra workshops. Maybe there's a higher percentage of very sexual people in that environment. I tend to think so. I do enjoy looking at women who are obviously sexy (i.e. dressed that way and giving off self-confidence),smiling at them in that approving way, and seeing if they will reciprocate wit a nice smile back. Only when I'm on my own, though,cause A tends to give me a hard time about it,LOL. Like grinning ruefully at me and saying "Want me to ask her for her phone number?" or something like that.
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I am the same, my buddies call it the whoredar because no matter what I will find the women in a group who will have sex immediately and in the most wild ways possible. Or it is more that me and the woman like me will sort of find each other in that crowd. My buddies think I go looking but I don't look, I can just tell. Maybe these women are like you and can just tell I am the one guy in the room who will pull hair, spank and do anything, hmmm I meet these women everywhere, airports, work, you name it though I only go for sex when it is possible to actually do it, like having a room, alley or table or something. When I am in a place where sex is ok, then the sex is always the primal kind and I think you know what I mean by that. So yes, I know exactly what you are talking about. It has nothing to do with how she is dressed or her appearance, age doesn't apply, marital status none of it. You can just tell from a look that this woman will be more than happy to have me tear her panties off as I bend her over the nearest piece of furniture. Strangely, I can also pick out pregnant women before they show and a few times before the woman knew herself. How, well if I get an overwhelming urge to breed with a woman, I know she is pregnant, lol. Go figure. I am only a stranger the first time...  See my Blog everyone [blog sircernuunos] Or join this group SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P  If you are into playing a bit more extreme than vanilla ?*
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Sometimes, but people don't tend to realize how much a sex freak I am until I start talking. And I dont always do alot of that. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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2/6/2009 4:55 pm |
Oh, god. I'm so bad at that-- I rarely can tell by looking at someone whether they're... um... "highly sexually charged". Yeah. That's one way to put it. Part of it is definitely my tendency to second guess myself when it comes to these things. I'll think I identify one, and then convince myself that I didn't see what I thought I saw. That's part of the reason I like this site-- I can go into conversations/meetings/whatever with all of what I consider to be my natural confidence, because I feel like I can be comfortable with whoever I'm talking to. I don't have to feel like I hide the fact that I love group sex, or public sex, or whatever, because I find most people here seem to be more tolerant of that sort of thing, even if it's not what they're into. I think that makes things more comfortable all around.
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Well . . . it helps if she displays a "Vagina is for lovers" bumper sticker. (grin)
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2/7/2009 12:52 am |
As the old saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock rogether." basically meaning that we know our own kind in s ome sort of subtle way. the twinkling eyes is one of those ways, but there are other signs, subtle body movements or gestures with the hands, the way someone laughs or how they react when talking about something tjat has a sexual undertone or innuendo.
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2/7/2009 2:18 am |
Yes you just know that look, you catch their eye and smile and something inside me just makes me think i already know this person. If i then make an effort i normally have gaged that simple quick look correct and two complete strangers end up having a completely wild night. Peter xx
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2/7/2009 4:40 am |
This doesn't happen often for me, but I know it when I see it. It never seems that I am in a position to act on it. I have occasionally had these strange visual encounters. Last week I was having dinner with a friend. A woman was headed out of the place and on the way she gave me the full body check out and then smiled at me. I noticed her as soon as she started and there was a clear and obvious mutual attraction. I am guessing that she was my kind of freak. She was gone in an instant.
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2/7/2009 6:09 pm |
I'm actually pretty good at this. My issue is telling if they want that hot sex with me. Oddly I find the I <3 hot sex people arn't always the ones you think they are.
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2/8/2009 6:28 am |
We always recognize each other.
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Pegged as prissy ? Hmmm . . . I don't know about that . . . but I can bet there are plenty of "they" who want to "peg your pussy", Mrs TwoSexy (full smile)
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2/9/2009 7:15 am |
I'm always on and my radar seldom fells me. These are some of the most spontaneous and enjoyable times that someone like us could experience. I wonder when we'll spy one another?
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This is an interesting skill - I can usually spot when a woman is wearing a sign that says "fuck me" - but usually I am very bad at it (refer to the sign).  Friends tell me I miss "the look" or "the sign" all the time. I just assume everyone is being friendly either because they are friendly or because it's their job. I may need leasons. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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I can recognize the look and pick the freak outta any crowd. It's just that I don't get around many crowds anymore  Won .
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"Hmmm...Think you'd be able to pick me out of a crowd?" Darlin' if I saw YOU in a crowd, I dunno if I could get past your smile and hair to think of anything else. It'd be difficult, but eventually I'd get around to figurin' out you were a freak Won .
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I used to be soooo bad at that!! Not because I didn't notice, but because I convinced myself I was reading too much into it. More people I ment the more I realized I was right all along  . One of those "if I only knew then what I know now" things. Do I have that look? Apparently. People tell me that all the time. I've even tried turning it off...it gets reallly awkward when girls start humping my leg in the middle of the grocery store (even more awkward with boys.,..really!). DO I recognize other people with that look? Do I think I could recognize you? I should hope so! I get the feeling you'd have a very intense energy about you, dress over the head or not .Sorry I was on a lil blog vacation babe...missed your musings. Kisses, licks, and gropes in the middle of aisle 6 at Kroger. -Brian
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i guess my people noticing skills are not as sharp as most. Though, I have often wondered and thought, while seeing other people wander through their daily life, I bet that person is wild in the bedroom. But I am never for sure, however i get some strange looks from other people maybe they are thinking that about me.
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