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Female Masturbation Manual Part 1  

shannalvs2swllow 48F
2032 posts
6/27/2009 10:18 pm
Female Masturbation Manual Part 1


My pussy demands that it be worshiped several times a day and i'm happy to oblige.
As a result of all my finger lickin good times, I consider myself to be a self pleasure expert.
Practice makes perfect you know.

Ok so today I was having thoughts of my guy grabbing my hair and fucking me hard from behind while talking dirty to me and before I knew it my panties were soaked and it was playtime.
I opened up the toybox and pulled out something fun.
I touched the front of my panties, rubbing them up and down softly before taking them off.
I could feel the warm wetness and it turned me on even more.
I hiked one leg up on my bed, the other still on the floor.
Leaning forward slightly, I slowly slid my vibrating cock into my hot, dripping hole from behind.
I was so ready to be fucked that my pussy was pulling the toy in on it's own. God, I love that!!

I was leaned over even more now, bracing with my other hand, fucking myself as hard as I could, finally having an amazingly super wet orgasm that was all over my thighs....YUM!

So anyway, I had a weird pain in my stomach shortly after, must have rattled something loose.....

Here are some tips for the beginner - or anyone looking to improve their repertoire:

Lie on a bed, or sit in a comfortable chair, and explore your nude or semi-nude body. Run your fingers and hands across your body. Explore your breasts and play with your nipples; caress your legs and thighs. Cup your vulva in your hand and gently rub in small circles. Make yourself feel good. Do this exercise as often as possible, but for no longer than 20 minutes per session. The point of this exercise is to make you feel good while staying relaxed, not to have an orgasm.

After you become comfortable exploring and touching your body you will want to try more direct means of stimulating your vulva. Slip your fingers between the folds of your vulva and massage and play with your inner labia, perhaps pulling on them lightly or firmly. Slip your fingers up to the top of your vulva and place them on top of your clitoris. Gently move your fingers up and down, around, and perhaps even wildly jiggle them. Make the loose tissue covering your clitoris slide across the body and glans of your clitoris. If you feel a need to be filled, insert a finger or two into your vagina. You want to make yourself feel really good, but you do not want to intentionally try to have an orgasm. If an orgasm occurs, you want it to be a total surprise.

Clitoral Stimulation
Using your hands and fingers, stimulate (rub, stroke, pinch, etc) the clitoris with one or more fingers or the palm of your hand. Some find direct contact with the clitoris too intense, and prefer stimulation near or around the clitoris. Others prefer to have a layer of clothing or some other fabric between the hand and clitoris. Try it both ways and see what works best for you.

G-Spot Stimulation
Inserting a vibrator or dildo into the vagina can help locate and stimulate your G-spot and offers a feeling of fullness in the vagina. You can locate your G-spot with your fingers, but it's difficult to provide adequate stimulation through manual masturbation. Women who enjoy stimulation of the G-spot usually employ sexual toys to make it easier and more enjoyable.

Vibrators
Vibrators are used primarily for clitoral stimulation, though many women also use them for vaginal or anal stimulation. They also may be combined with other toys and used in any number of positions.

Common, Everyday Objects
Rub your clitoris against any soft, non-abrasive object (e.g., a pillow, the corner of a couch, etc.) and see if you enjoy the stimulation it provides.

Showers
A detachable shower-head can be quite scintillating for just about any woman. The best shower available is the ones with the versatile control that switches the water from a steady stream to a pulsating jet spray.

Something about this makes me want to go rub my clit on the corner of a sofa.............


Come For The Booty, Stay For The Brains


rm_sircernuunos 55M
11959 posts
6/28/2009 1:14 am

I can think of one way you can masturbate while laying on me using my cock as the toy to rub on your clit.

I suppose If I am there, I would just do things to you myself anyway

I am only a stranger the first time...

See my Blog everyone [blog sircernuunos]
Or join this group SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P
If you are into playing a bit more extreme than vanilla ?*


shannalvs2swllow replies on 6/28/2009 9:23 pm:
Are you saying you're not into watchin your girl touch herself?

opus1001 63M

6/28/2009 4:02 am

Thanks for the advice...I haven't got vulva or G-Spot can I rub/stimulate yours?


shannalvs2swllow replies on 6/28/2009 9:24 pm:
Yet another reason my idea of holding a hands on class would work

DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
6/28/2009 11:33 am

Or just tell em to come to me Shae


shannalvs2swllow replies on 6/28/2009 9:26 pm:
Can you instruct the poor clueless girls in the art of self pleasure?

rm_sircernuunos 55M
11959 posts
6/28/2009 11:15 pm

Of course I am, I have held the camera on many.

But if I have you in one of my 'hotel rooms turned dungeon' masturbating would only be one of your activities

I am only a stranger the first time...

See my Blog everyone [blog sircernuunos]
Or join this group SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P
If you are into playing a bit more extreme than vanilla ?*


realestate55 65M

6/29/2009 7:21 pm

oh man. i just wanna watch.
i'll be good (or not, whatever you say baby)
i promise.
pretty please.



If you woke up breathing, congratulations! You have another chance!


crazybecky1970 53F

6/30/2009 5:11 am

One thing that is so awesome is wet panties. I think mine are wet the majority of the time! Wet from wanting to play and cum. Its worse when the situation is such that you cannot do it, like at work.

Let's get crazy together.


GeorgiaLover53 71M

6/30/2009 10:57 am

you are a versatile young lady and I love how detailed you are in your posts. Now you need to lay back and masturbate in front of every one so we can see your technique. ?*


Tigrgurl19 42F

7/18/2009 10:25 am

DrB could write a manual on his own, you have no idea.

[post 1715027]


rm_jan007999 45M

7/18/2009 10:26 am

it sounds like to me that I could take very good care of your hot lil pussy


rm_Bond007fu2 73M
69 posts
7/25/2009 10:34 pm

Let's have some fun. I know we could satisfy each other deliciously.


photoplaydateM 45M

8/22/2009 6:18 pm

Thank you for being an honest you!! I've had a couple of friends throughout the past who I could tell couldn't sit still some days and just simply wouldn't admit they needed to be worshipped. (laughs) I do have a question, though. Is there any way you could explain your tummy ache? I've had no idea how to answer that in the past when it came up. What would've made your tummy better after that? ~Kisses!!~


endymioneros 54M

8/23/2009 7:18 pm

Something about this makes me want to rub you clit too...

Hello from another self pleasure expert... who can't seem to find enough times in a day...


rm_1982sue 43M/42F
28 posts
9/21/2009 4:03 pm

wow reading how u do it got my pussy all wet and juicy! i love ur posts


8curved 54M

11/1/2009 4:20 pm

well i thought i was an expert at taking care of my own needs but it sure looks like you could teach me a thing or two."would you please"?


evettewet 42F

1/21/2010 8:00 am

Guess i am not the only one who spends a lot of time taking care of there needs you should make a real "self help" book gave me lots of ideals.


VikramJohl 48M
2 posts
1/17/2011 4:07 am

Awesome insite to female masturbation...!!


Dragonchillxl 44M
7 posts
4/5/2011 7:10 pm

Aww hell yes! You go girl!

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giannagr12 42F
33 posts
10/5/2011 7:18 am

im going for a shower..


rm_Damont 47M
10 posts
12/22/2011 10:34 pm

YOU SURE KNOW HOW TO GET ME EXCITED, YOUR SEXY AND HOT


rm_gunut682000 55M
4 posts
2/12/2012 7:31 am

nice all woman should read this


YrHeartWillMelt 64M
72 posts
2/24/2012 5:49 pm

I think my girlfriend has the idea...


YrHeartWillMelt 64M
72 posts
2/24/2012 5:51 pm

Yep, that's right!


69forevr88 43M
83 posts
12/4/2013 6:20 pm

After reading your how-to, I just have to ask, "How often do you go commando?"


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
11/10/2015 1:56 pm

Nicely written, think I will hit the shower now, yes where I do my private worshipping as well.


easyduzit123 106M
8 posts
7/10/2018 10:55 pm

Female Masturbation Manual Part 1
You state: "it's difficult to provide adequate stimulation [of the G-Spot] through manual masturbation"
What guys do wrong here is repeatedly poking their finger(s) straight into the vagina thereby missing many of the nerves needed for stimulation.
FYI The vagina is "...the muscular tube that connects the external genitals to the cervix of the uterus. The vagina is approximately 2 to 4 inches long and can double in length when a woman is aroused. The walls of the vagina can be described as layers of wrinkles or folds of tissue; not the opening itself." [ Lunette.com ] The vaginal opening is the vulva.
The G-spot, is found on the anterior or front wall (abdomen side) of the vagina just past the pubic bone and has a somewhat spongy feel. You will know you have "hit the spot" because that area becomes engorged with blood, hardens somewhat; and can have a rippled feel upon arousal.
Once you begin to insert, feel for the anterior (upper, against the abdomen) wall of the vagina which starts right inside the opening.
Follow that curve in; massaging and stimulating as you go. As the woman becomes increasingly excited, increase pressure--but take it easy, guys. You should now be roughly in the G-spot area--much closer to the opening than if you were just doing in/out/in/out.
A great technique is curling the fingers in a motion that resembles a "come here" or scratching gesture. A once you have established a pattern, keep at it. Don't change strokes. This whole exercise is about her; not you showing off all the positions you have been reading about.
Keep track of your partner's breathing to know how she is doing.
TMI As long as i have the floor; I wold like to point out that the clitoris is much more than that pearl hiding away under a fold of flesh where the inner labia connect to form the clitoral hood. This hood is connected to your glans, which is the very tip of your clitoris (the part you can see outside of your body) at the top of the vaginal opening .
"Many people think that the tip of the clitoris is all there is to it, but that’s not the case. In fact, your clitoris is almost as big as a penis but it extends back into your body, making a wishbone shape, called your crura. Each side of your crura is about 3 inches long and is made up of erectile tissue that plays an important role in sexual pleasure and orgasm.
"Your clitoris is the only part of your body that is made entirely for your sexual pleasure." [Ibid]
The whole purpose of "finger fucking" is direct stimulation of this hidden clitoris. Straight fingers don't do the job.
The Clitoral Truth is a good book to read to understand this better.


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