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IS it meaningless or NOT
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IS it meaningless or NOT NSA...... is that just a hook-up a fuck n run one night stand FWB.... what does that mean to you, where is the line?? what happens after the sex Can you give up part of your body and it mean NOTHING? Is it every man/woman for him/herself? Can you just walk away saying THANKS................til next time or maybe NOT |
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Fortunately no part of my body is given up, unless you count certain fluids. Woody Allen said: "Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as meaningless experiences go it is one of the best!"
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It's really a matter of personal opinion. My opinion is that fwb means you actually know each other and enjoy each other's company beyond sex but you don't see the relationship continuing forever or progressing into a traditional romantic relationship. I also think fwb is a hard line to walk because both "partners" need to stay on the same page as far as where things are (and aren't) going. I'm not sure that happens very often, one or the other always seems to want to move forward.
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The only true "No String Attached" situation is a one ngith stand, no last names, exchanging emails or phone numbers, no fucking ever again. An example might be that dude you meet on Spring Break whose name you forget as soon as you begin your walk of shame. The minute you go bac to the well, there are strings developing even if it's just mutual lust. A friend with benefits is first and foremost a friend. If you never hang out or go do something without it ending in sex, it's probably not an FWB. If you've never meet any of their other friends, it's probably not an FWB. If they never talk about their life, ideas, or anything beyond surface niceties and the front page of the newspaper, it's probably not an FWB An FWB is someone who is integrated into your life like any other friend.
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FWB - isn't meaningless and it isn't a one nightstand. Great friends who like to do the same things in and out of the bedroom but have only friendship feelings for each other that happen to have great sex together. Nothing is off limits to talk about because you are also the ear for the other. at least, that's the way I knew it. Until I fell in love with another... Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit ~Rumi  ..
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At the very least I want FWB as defined above but am still looking for the One. The pressure relief valve is masturbation ....
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NSA...... is that just a hook-up a fuck n run one night stand..... Usually. No-strings-attached means no obligations from a sexual encounter. FWB.... what does that mean to you, where is the line?? .... "Friends" , we all know what that is. "With benefits", that refers to "Sex". If you didn't see the "wB" on the "F", then for women that means "Friends with the benefit of attention". what happens after the sex ... You clean up and if you took your clothes off, you put them on. Can you give up part of your body and it mean NOTHING?....You say it like it's just been amputated. All this is not complicated. You want to have sex or you don't. Is it every man/woman for him/herself? .... Can be. If a woman just wanted sex, no further obligations after sex, who is going to argue with that? And if they do, then likely she won't have sex with him. Can you just walk away saying THANKS................til next timeor maybe NOT .... Yes. But again, usually if the sex is good or great, there usually is a next time.
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