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Being a submissive
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Being a submissive Last night was an interesting night... Carol agreed to have a gentleman come over for a first meet. Although that is standard operating procedure around here, it started off differently in that Carol didn't even see his picture or read his profile. During her standard 'Getting to know you' phone chats with him, the subject of being a submissive and domination as well as having a blindfolded encounter came up in the conversation. And, we all agreed to have a little fun this way. So, a date was setup for him to come over Friday. The agreement was that I would have Carol lying on her bed, blindfolded and naked when he arrived. The event was scheduled for Friday partially because one of her oldest friends had previously been scheduled for Wednesday morning. This was someone she had been with at least a couple of dozen times over the years and she was anxious to add another round to their list of encounters. But, Tuesday night, he had to cancel so we got in touch with this new 'Mystery Lover' to see if he wanted to move the event to Wednesday night. Carol is the type of person who is usually pretty calm and relaxed about meeting someone. At most, if an event is an actual date (dinner and/or movies), she sometimes starts getting a little excited once she starts her womanly ritual of the<b> bubble bath </font></b>and makeup and attire selection. I must admit, I was kinda excited by this since Carol has only had a couple of blindfolded events before and both were sometime ago. I even took off work a tad early because yesterday I had been, let's say, a tad bit preoccupied with the evening's event. So had Carol. In fact, she went out to run some errands around 2:30PM just to stay busy to make the time pass so when I got home around 4:15, she wasn't here. The mystery lover was due sometime around 5:30PM. He called just before 5:30PM to give us a heads up that he was enroute and I had to tell him that Carol was out and that we might have to go have a drink because obviously he couldn't be setting on the living room couch when she finally got home. But, she arrived home a few minutes later. She had been so successful getting her mind off the event that without wearing a watch, she didn't realize what time it was. So, she came in and immediately headed up the stairs to shower and get ready. (he he) No need to pick out something to wear this time. But she was PUMPED! I haven't see her this excited about meeting someone or an event in years. All of a sudden, I was worried that the actual event wouldn't, in fact couldn't live up to either of our expectations. Man, was I wrong! She was 99% 'ready' by the time he knocked on the door. We waited maybe 3 minutes before she called down and said she was ready for us to come up. Lately, Carol has opted to have the majority of her playtime one on one while either I stayed downstairs or she played at the man's place. Typically, she starts an evening with a man by chatting on the couch and if things are going well, there may be some preliminary smooching and fondling and often some body massage that at least gets Carol undressed. Sometimes she might even give her guest some head before she finally suggests that they 'get more comfortable' in the bedroom. It was the fact that, due to the lack of preliminary face to face getting to know you chat and her being blindfolded, we had agreed that I would set-in on the encounter from start to finish so even this part of the plan was a bit unusal. Now, sometimes, Carol and her guest have actually done their thing right there in the living room and at most sometimes I might come upstairs just to see if everybody was having fun or needed a drink of water, whatever so getting to see the entire episode was also fueling my excitement. So, it started. We got up the stairs, she was lying in the bed, totally naked, music playing and she was totally blindfolded. Now, although the DOM/sub topic had been talked about some, this wasn't really the major plan although obviously with Carol blindfolded... she had placed herself into a submissive role simply by being blindfolded. And, her mystery lover immediately stepped up to taking a Dominent attitude with her. He was a perfect gentleman with it however. He was continually checking to see if she was ok with what he was doing with her. Also, his dominance was perfect for her experience with this sort of role play. He spent a lot of time with the massage and foreplay and when he finally did start screwing her she was definitely wet and hot and ready for him. He finished her off by pulling out and shooting in her mouth. Due to the fact that he had to work the next day, as did I, and poor Carol had to get up at for an early work shift, the evening ended almost instantly after the encounter. One thing the guy and I had chatted about via text messaging before the event was that we thought it would add to the excitement if she kept her blindfold on for the entire affair and, maybe even keep Carol from seeing him the next time or two as well. I told him I doubted she could keep her mask on throughout the event but he made it a point to tell her to not take it off. In fact, in his 'dominent' role, he told her that she wouldn't get to see him until after at least 3 encounters. This was one of the things she and I discussed afterwards. I was surprised that she was also quite excited about keeping this man who... had never seen her with clothes on, who had touched every inch of her body, had fucked her and even come in her mouth as a mystery. Its quite possible that even if he does her over and over again (which she definitely hopes), that she may never see what he looks like. She also was literally HIGH from playing the submissive role to his dominance. This was as perfect an introduction to DOM/sub as it could have been. Well, that is about it. Morning after thoughts abound as to whether she will get further into DOM/sub or whether she will keep this role play as 'special' between her and her new DOM or whether it is just a passing phase that will get old quickly. Only time will tell. |
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Now THAT is what the first time can and should be about. He gave her a bit of excitement and at the same time, catered to her comfort. A true Dom knows that this first encounter is paramount to making sure there are more and strives to make if fun, hot, safe and comfortable for all involved. I happy for both Carol and the gentleman that participated. She will be even more excited the next time, as she now knows a little of what to expect. The thrill of being satisfied coupled with the mystery will again add to the encounter. The high she experienced is a benefit and by product... it might not happen every time with every Dominant, but it can. And trust me when I tell you it is very addictive! LOL I am so pleased that the first encounter was a success! The only thing I can say to that is ..... ME, ME, ME, MY TURN NEXT!!!! 
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1 post 4/29/2010 8:59 pm |
love it,envious.....=]
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I am so thrilled for you both to have had such a great "first" D/s encounter. I rather prefer the sensual, sensory deprivation approach to D/s in sex play...while I can go hard core and dish out the physical, it is the mind-fuck that is so delicious!!! Again, I'm glad it worked out so well and I do hope you'll keep us informed as you and Carol progress further into this exploration. Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure... - Lord Byron, Don Juan
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Welcome to the world of D/s! It's hot and if done right it can be the most sexual/sensual thing ever!!! Good Luck with it...
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