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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

So easy even a Caveman can do it  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
5/27/2012 4:17 pm
So easy even a Caveman can do it

So I see guys on here complaining all the time about never finding anyone. As a standard member I have struggled over the years. So in the interest of other men on here I offer the following advice. 1 have a profile, fill it out. 2 have a decent picture not some cock shot. 3 respond to people 4 Offer to meet like a real man. Shaving, showering and offering to meet for Coffee or lunch is not out for this site. Asking some woman to show up in some hotel room is not cool.5 Show up or shut up

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
6/5/2012 9:22 am
    Quoting  :
Kinda like the guy that puts an action shot up for his profile pic. So you are looking to meet someone and you start with that? It is messed up. I do think alot of it goes to that guys just do not understand what a FWB is vs a FB vs NSA. All things that one should understand before going into this.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
5/28/2012 4:42 am
    Quoting btdt2009:
    Don't forget....when emailing a woman or speaking with her on the phone, treat her with respect and not like a living/breathing blow up doll that is only there to service them.

    That happens quite often.
OF course, how did I forget to mention respect! Old age I guess. Great story too Slow and easy. It is way to easy for people on here to act like total idiots because they can hide behind the electric vail of the internet. Truth is that works to a point. Sooner or later if you are trying to meet then you have to step out from behind that vail.


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
5/27/2012 7:20 pm

 Absolutely agree with you ReallyReady46

but yet when we offer the same advise in the advise line, we get lamb basted.
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slow_n_easy_007 53F
302 posts
5/27/2012 7:14 pm
    Quoting btdt2009:
    Don't forget....when emailing a woman or speaking with her on the phone, treat her with respect and not like a living/breathing blow up doll that is only there to service them.

    That happens quite often.
I agree! Respect should be of utmost importance!

Don't be like the guy who called me just so he could jack off to my voice, I don't care to participate in this sort of behavior. Or he would call me at like 6 am and wake me up, sorry dude that is way too early to chat. It turned me off so much that I don't care to speak with him at all. I'm careful to give my number out to guys anymore. I think he finally stopped calling when I told him what an ass he is when he called me during work hours. He thought he was being sooo clever blocking his number.....which I already have.
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.
--Benjamin Franklin


btdt2009 56F  
1466 posts
5/27/2012 5:23 pm

 Don't forget....when emailing a woman or speaking with her on the phone, treat her with respect and not like a living/breathing blow up doll that is only there to service them.

That happens quite often.


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