Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Between a rock....  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
8/15/2012 12:39 pm
Between a rock....

Well the season of strangeness must be here. So in the past few months I have noticed all kind of weird things going on. First I get hit up for money, no repayement, just give me cash, then some home repairs. Now I get referred to as a slut. Not once but several times in the past couple of months. If I am a male on FriendFinder-x then I am cheap, easy and just looking for one night sex. I was invited to a M&G and backed out. I just have not being feeling all that well and need to get my health checked out. This is how I operate, no need spreading anything, flu, colds, STDs or UTI to others at a party. Instead of being told, hope you feel better or hope everything checks out ok, I get smacked down! Made to feel like dirt and some kind of no call no show person.

I know lots of women complain about guys not reading their profiles. It is becoming clear that alot of woman are not reading profiles either. When I put in my profile that its about doing things together, a walk in the park, or wine and sushi that does not mean this is some sort of wham bang, I am out of here sexual interaction. Or is there something here I am missing.

Perhaps I am wroung, but I thought this was a place to meet people that were interested in their sexual sides. To be open and honest about themselves. I may not be looking for what you are, but at least we can be open about it from the start rather than hiding it in some closet like you are forced to do on other sites.

Some how throwing all the guys under the bus seems a waste..... and we wonder why this site is going down the drain?

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/16/2012 10:57 pm
    Quoting btdt2009:
    I'd say it's time to remove those type of people from your life hun. You deserve to be surrounded by people who value you and have actual concern for you. Not selfish people looking to use you in some way.

    I hope you feel better really soon hun.
Well actually btdt2009 that is a great thought! I told the one that wanted money, maybe she should have got to know me first. The second I just no longer talk to. The last one that I called and canceled I blocked her, she was just way rude! I have my Dr. appointment in the afternoon. See what he says.


btdt2009 56F  
1466 posts
8/16/2012 3:57 pm
    Quoting reallyready46:
    I know you are aware whats going on and I appreciate your advice. Just tough to keep going at times when you think you are doing the right thing, and get put down for it.
I'd say it's time to remove those type of people from your life hun. You deserve to be surrounded by people who value you and have actual concern for you. Not selfish people looking to use you in some way.

I hope you feel better really soon hun.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/15/2012 11:35 pm
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    Well. you know we hope your medical situation checks out. We have told you that on the phone. and i think all the real people can tell you that FriendFinder-x has went to hell. that was a long time ago and it is just getting worse.

    Now we are getting asked to join the icebreakers program. Couples? on the ice breaker. That is new.

    And you know you are not a cheap piece of meat to us. YOu are a good friend.
I know you are aware whats going on and I appreciate your advice. Just tough to keep going at times when you think you are doing the right thing, and get put down for it.


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
8/15/2012 8:40 pm

 Well. you know we hope your medical situation checks out. We have told you that on the phone. and i think all the real people can tell you that FriendFinder-x has went to hell. that was a long time ago and it is just getting worse.

Now we are getting asked to join the icebreakers program. Couples? on the ice breaker. That is new.

And you know you are not a cheap piece of meat to us. YOu are a good friend.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our FriendFinder-x blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


Become a member to create a blog