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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

A little odd question.  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
3/5/2013 12:39 am
A little odd question.

For those that actually know me this is gonna seem really odd. I have this friend that met a woman on Craig's List. They chatted some then she sent him pictures. From what he said they were pretty hot. There was nudity, not sure about anything else. So he asks to meet her. She says yes, then tells him that she has this fantasy. So he asks her what it is. Her reply is to be paided for sex. So he asks me, what should he do?

So I tell him find out how much, then set it up that he "pays" her then she buys dinner later. I thought case closed. He asks she replies its her money if she gets it. Mean while she is sending him all kind of pictures and messages. I did find out she never would name a price, told my friend to make an offer. So something here just did not pass the sniff test. So I tell him, maybe you are getting set up here. You show up and are going to get robbed or this is a police sting. So my advice, meet in public for coffee and ask if she is a cop. Well he did, now he has heard nothing from her and I am to blame. Was I wrong giving this advice? I thought it was the best at the time.

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
3/6/2013 10:34 am
    Quoting btdt2009:
    But he thinks I helped mess up a good thing.

    Your friend is an idiot.
Ok I get that part, but everyone needs at least one idiot in their life, it makes you appreciate smart people more.


btdt2009 56F  
1466 posts
3/6/2013 9:07 am

 But he thinks I helped mess up a good thing.

Your friend is an idiot.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
3/5/2013 10:44 am
    Quoting Bang_44DDD:
    That was not her fantasy, it was her part or full-time job. CL has turned into play-for-pay. They call it roses or some other euphemism. Did your friend want to pay every single time with her?

    Your friend sounds like he may be in over his head. Rough waters on CL and he needs to learn to navigate them. Your advice was sound.
Thanks, never heard of that before. I thought it was a sting, a working girl or someone trying to rob him. Well CL is a great place, just not a great meeting place.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
3/5/2013 10:41 am
    Quoting rm_tony021869:
    I wouldnt trust anyone on CL. That was nothing but a set up and you helped your friend out. In most cases its not a cop but ppeople that are going to rob you. I have heard this way to many times.
Well my feeling also. But he thinks I helped mess up a good thing. I told him to start thinking with his other head, the one on his shoulders.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
3/5/2013 10:39 am
    Quoting TicklePlease:
    If your friend won't listen to advice to not privately meet a woman from CL and give her money for sex then you need to find smarter friends.
I know but you have to take pity on at least one fool in your life.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/5/2013 3:09 am

 If your friend won't listen to advice to not privately meet a woman from CL and give her money for sex then you need to find smarter friends.


rm_tony021869 58M
44 posts
3/5/2013 2:30 am

 I wouldnt trust anyone on CL. That was nothing but a set up and you helped your friend out. In most cases its not a cop but ppeople that are going to rob you. I have heard this way to many times.


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