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Age In the last couple of years, specially this week I have been hit with the age thing several times. What amazes me is how woman just a couple years younger than me can say I am to old but then they are after a person 10, 15 even 20 years younger than they are. I am at a loss for an explanation. I do understand how many guys are out of shape at 50. However I post a torso picture so that people can see what I look like. With age should come experience. That experience should make a better partner. I also understand that everyones experience are different. If you find that those young people are unable to meet or are very skilled. Why would you not look at someone a couple of years older than yourself? Maybe one day you will find yourself on the to old side, then what?? |
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June and I accept people by how they act, not by age. Dont get us wrong. If you want a person who is 10,15,20 yrs younger who wants to play with you, it just boosts your ego. You are right, with age come experience. And as the one person said, people change over time. The like new things, they dislike old things. Swinging is all about exploring and learning, so in that regards age should matter. maturity and health does.  Someone that finally gets it!
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June and I accept people by how they act, not by age. Dont get us wrong. If you want a person who is 10,15,20 yrs younger who wants to play with you, it just boosts your ego. You are right, with age come experience. And as the one person said, people change over time. The like new things, they dislike old things. Swinging is all about exploring and learning, so in that regards age should matter. maturity and health does.
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Well you two may be right. So why do so many seem hell bent on not taking advantage of that experience? I was really blessed to have this wonderful couple show me some things and more importantly explain things to me. Like how a woman changes with age. How to use your fingers on a woman. It is knowledge I probably would not have gotten any where else. Nice to see some one from just the Road from Pine Mountain, Ga.
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I prefer my men age appropriate However...... Do you have any idea how man men your age tell me, a scant 10 years younger than them, that I am too old. They want a woman in her 30s, some of them want a woman even younger. And, for the record, many more men are looking for much younger partners than women. Welcome to being middle aged. You are right that older are more experienced but, god bless 'em, a good number of older men are also stuck in a rut when it comes to sex. They've been doing the same moves since they were 30 and keep doing them whether they work or not. They also don't realize that a woman's body goes through changes too and don't allow extra time for us to lube or even get offended if the lube come out, as if its an insult to them. Finally, I've had far more men 45+ try to weasel their way out of wearing a condom then men under 40. Yes, you all have your drawbacks but I still love older men  If it's any consolation, think of it this way. What is the maturity level of anyone, male or female, who wants a partner 10,15,20 years younger than they are. You are probably dodging a bullet
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I prefer my men age appropriate However...... Do you have any idea how man men your age tell me, a scant 10 years younger than them, that I am too old. They want a woman in her 30s, some of them want a woman even younger. And, for the record, many more men are looking for much younger partners than women. Welcome to being middle aged. You are right that older are more experienced but, god bless 'em, a good number of older men are also stuck in a rut when it comes to sex. They've been doing the same moves since they were 30 and keep doing them whether they work or not. They also don't realize that a woman's body goes through changes too and don't allow extra time for us to lube or even get offended if the lube come out, as if its an insult to them. Finally, I've had far more men 45+ try to weasel their way out of wearing a condom then men under 40. Yes, you all have your drawbacks but I still love older men If it's any consolation, think of it this way. What is the maturity level of anyone, male or female, who wants a partner 10,15,20 years younger than they are. You are probably dodging a bullet
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