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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Respect  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
11/17/2013 11:36 pm
Respect

Lately I have seen several couples post about respect. So I asked 2 of them what respect means to them. For a couple it seems to mean asking nicely and going through the husband for permission to play. It means understanding that often a single guy does not get the Wife alone. There are safety issues and often the Hubby does like to watch. Respect means that you may call her dirty names in the bedroom but she still is a lady. It means thanking the couple at the end of it all.

But as a single guy what does it mean? Lately I think the behavior on here has been terrible. Woman chatting then just out of the blue dropping out. Women not meeting. sad to say women just looking to have stuff done for free. I understand the numbers you deal with of idiot males. However you acting the same way just brings more of the same behavior. It does seem like nice guys finish last. Now before the screaming begins, a story is in order. Last summer a woman I talked to several times here asked me if I could roof. I replied I could. She then asked me to do her garage roof. Simple enough roof, one peek. Before I could even ask anything else, she bluntly tells me there is no Sex, no beer no meals and no pay for doing this. When I told Ms. sunnin no way, she flipped out on me. All you guys want is sex she told me. No, how about some respect? We have never meet, never went out and you want all this for FREE?? Do I have IDIOT on my forehead?
Is it really out of the question to make a meal and provide drinks?

It amazes me how much people seem to focus on on one thing. In the last few weeks I have been told I am to old, to bald, to small, not thick enough, white, to hairy, facial hair, body hair. so I guess we focus on one thing and make it a deal breaker. I do understand some of it. Hey weight, smoking, race can be deal breakers. But really do you think because I am slightly balding it makes me less of a great lover?
Are you that shallow to think only a guy with a huge penis can satisfy you? Do you think only a twenty year old can make you happy? Or is it you just can not handle an experienced lover?

Respect is a two way street. Which way are you going?

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/19/2013 6:38 am
    Quoting  :
You are absolutely correct! its amazes me the stories I have heard.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/19/2013 6:37 am
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    Respect? What is this concept you speak of? Respect, Ha! That went out of the middle ages. LOL

    But in all seriousness, We think that respect is important, and should be used at all time.....except when it is not necessary i.e. the bedroom.

    ReallyReady knows use personally and intimately. He has our respect, and we hope we have his.
Here is a couple I do know! Years ago durning a play session with 5 of us. Bill showed us and let us pratice on making a woman orgasm using your fingers, then moved on to dildos. It was a great no pressure night where I learned a lot. I do know that I have had to watch Junes back a couple of times at parties. Because they respect me and trust me.


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
11/18/2013 4:11 pm

 Respect? What is this concept you speak of? Respect, Ha! That went out of the middle ages. LOL

But in all seriousness, We think that respect is important, and should be used at all time.....except when it is not necessary i.e. the bedroom.

ReallyReady knows use personally and intimately. He has our respect, and we hope we have his.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our FriendFinder-x blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/18/2013 11:09 am
    Quoting LoveJunkie2015:
    Great post! It's like because we don't know each other face to face we have a green light to lie, flake, ignore, etc. So many men just dropped off the face of the Earth when we planned to meet. Just began to ignore me, no explanation, no lame excuse! Are we really all so lazy to send a simple, "sorry, I'm busy" or whatever text?? And fuck that user bitch trying to just get something for nothing! A free roof!??! Really you stupid cunt??!! But you know what? Every asshole that begs me for dirty pics, also trying to get something for nothing. I've changed some of my behaviors since I first started, and I do my damnedest to point out bad behaviors when I see them and give a few hints on how to not piss me off in the future. A'F'F itself could help out with this, by allowing us to report such drivel and perhaps they could send warnings, tips, etc, just something. It's terrible how people treat people on here. We are all real people. Do you suck that bad in the real world too?? Damn.
Oh please do not even get me going with the lying thing! I knew I forgot something in there. You have to love the losers that put down a false age or some 20 yr old picture. Like if you actually have the nuts to meet someone they are not going to notice? Its not like this site is for the school of the blind. I most often use a 3 strikes you are out. Why because stuff can happen, over time, car breaks down. I think alot more of you if you call me when it happens and say so.

Funny I have wondered at times to, do you act like this all the time?


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/18/2013 11:01 am
    Quoting  :
Thanks for weighing in. As a follower of your blog you were one that I was thinking about about. I know that its mostly guys that seem to think some cute pick up line is respect. When we have chatted you have always been respectful and polite with me. You are correct in saying that what goes around comes around.


LoveJunkie2015 41F
487 posts
11/18/2013 5:06 am

 Great post! It's like because we don't know each other face to face we have a green light to lie, flake, ignore, etc. So many men just dropped off the face of the Earth when we planned to meet. Just began to ignore me, no explanation, no lame excuse! Are we really all so lazy to send a simple, "sorry, I'm busy" or whatever text?? And fuck that user bitch trying to just get something for nothing! A free roof!??! Really you stupid cunt??!! But you know what? Every asshole that begs me for dirty pics, also trying to get something for nothing. I've changed some of my behaviors since I first started, and I do my damnedest to point out bad behaviors when I see them and give a few hints on how to not piss me off in the future. A'F'F itself could help out with this, by allowing us to report such drivel and perhaps they could send warnings, tips, etc, just something. It's terrible how people treat people on here. We are all real people. Do you suck that bad in the real world too?? Damn.


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