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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Friends in the cold  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
2/10/2014 12:35 pm
Friends in the cold

Well lately all this cold weather has been a curse and a godsend. Its running up my heating bills! But it has also given me reflection time. A carry over from my fall "friends" issues has been nagging at me lately. It amazes me the people that tell me, you never come around, You never call me or my fav, you never something for me. Lately I have reading lots of blogs. You know It dawned on me, its the same thing here. Lots of promises. Lots of what are you going to do for me, with very little offered in what can I do for you.

What makes it so hard to find good quality people. A persons word seems to mean nothing anymore. So much give me give me by people. So how do you actually figure out who to keep and who to dump? Everyone has talents or that moment where they shined. At the same time everyone has their weakness and downfalls.

slow_n_easy_007 53F
302 posts
2/14/2014 7:03 pm
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    Finding the real people is hard to find. I know we are glad we found you and slow.

    I know you have helped us more then we have been able to help you.
the feeling is mutual to my dear friends. we are here for each other, especially when it counts....plus for the fun times
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.
--Benjamin Franklin


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
2/11/2014 3:53 am

 Finding the real people is hard to find. I know we are glad we found you and slow.

I know you have helped us more then we have been able to help you.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our FriendFinder-x blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
2/11/2014 12:43 am
    Quoting Smurfnturf:
    It takes time. On the internet people can pretend to be anyone they want. It can take a while to figure out who is worthy of your trust.
Smurfnturf you have an excellent point there. You are correct in that people can hide behind a keyboard and be who ever they want. The issue is when you meet people. They say one thing but act another way.


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