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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Can you give your heart out to much?  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
10/28/2014 11:57 pm
Can you give your heart out to much?

So can you give your heart out to much? Can you care about to many people in different ways without hurting yourself? Can you care and love people in different levels. Is it possible to love one, want to help another one and enjoy spending time with another?

Or is this just a heart break getting ready to happen?

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/1/2014 3:33 pm
    Quoting ClydeCouple2:
    I know from personal experience that you can love people in different ways. Yes, because of that you can get hurt too. For me it was a big learning experience too.

    You know me personal and you have heard me talk about other people before. Some of them I just wanted to hang out with others were/are very good friends.

    I have done things for others in a heartbeat and never asked for anything in return and then have them walk all over me. It hurts but I had to remind myself that it was a lesson that I had to learn and hope that I won't make it again.

    Just remember this you have friends out there that love you for who you are and not just for helping them out. We hope that you know that any time you need us we will do are very best to be there to help you out too.

    Call us if you just need to talk. I now have my phone back and not sharing with youngest. LOL

    ...Greeneyes...
Well its not getting walked on by others. I have cut a lot of people out of my life this year that are not friends, just users. It is at times I feel like I am not taking care of those I care about around me. Leaves me feeling a bit guilty about what time I have given them.


ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
10/30/2014 8:18 pm

 I know from personal experience that you can love people in different ways. Yes, because of that you can get hurt too. For me it was a big learning experience too.

You know me personal and you have heard me talk about other people before. Some of them I just wanted to hang out with others were/are very good friends.

I have done things for others in a heartbeat and never asked for anything in return and then have them walk all over me. It hurts but I had to remind myself that it was a lesson that I had to learn and hope that I won't make it again.

Just remember this you have friends out there that love you for who you are and not just for helping them out. We hope that you know that any time you need us we will do are very best to be there to help you out too.

Call us if you just need to talk. I now have my phone back and not sharing with youngest. LOL

...Greeneyes...
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our FriendFinder-x blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
10/30/2014 9:03 am
    Quoting HappyChick43:
    You can have all different levels of caring for people yes. Yes, it'll sometimes hurt when they walk all over you thinking your kindness and caring is being weak.

    Be a little smart with who you give what to is my advice
Thanks! I am not talking about letting others use me.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
10/30/2014 9:02 am
    Quoting  :
Oh I have been there and done that! ( see earlier posts ) I am over that, in fact I got rid of a whole lot of leeches this year.


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
10/29/2014 12:29 am

 No - I don't think you can't give your heart out too much.

Can you care about too many people? - No. ... without hurting yourself? Well, No. When you love people and care about people, you will end up getting hurt. Nobody can hurt you if you DON'T care.

Can you care about and love people at different levels? - Yes, of course.

Is it possible to love one, want to help another one and enjoy spending time with another? - Yes. Does that mean that THEY are going to be happy about you spreading your affections? Uh, NO. (if we are talking about women/men here that you might be dating or having various relationships with).


reallyready46 replies on 10/30/2014 9:05 am:
Pretty much how I was thinking. Just needed a reality check from others.

HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
10/29/2014 12:05 am

 You can have all different levels of caring for people yes. Yes, it'll sometimes hurt when they walk all over you thinking your kindness and caring is being weak.

Be a little smart with who you give what to is my advice


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