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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Divided thoughts  

reallyready46 64M
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2/1/2016 11:25 am
Divided thoughts

So I am told that my brother needs surgery to keep walking. So I find my feelings are divided on this. This is the brother that has stole money from my house, stole money from my parents, ripped off an uncle and a couple of relatives. He is a druggie and has been in and out of rehab centers so much they have a revolving Door for him. He has been a class A scumbag.

So I am told this surgery may not work, but if he does not have it then he will end up shortly in a Wheel chair. If he does have his hip fixed he may still end up in a wheel chair. So one side of me says " bummer". The other side of me says guess karma sucks when it catches up to you!

Yeah I know he is my brother. The youngest the charming one that had women around him all the time. The one that had of pair of twins fighting over him at the same time. Yes they knew about each other. He had a terrific woman at one point. Lost her to his drug use. Its just that he may be blood but I am not his blood. He just has brought so much disgrace and shame that I can not claim him. If I get asked I just reply with, he is a relative.

He did some things to my family when I was married that I told him he was going to get a beating for. Threats and a whole ugly weekend. So when I find him do I still kick his ass of do I just shove a stick in his wheel spokes?

ltrskr 75M
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2/1/2016 11:54 am

 "Stick in the spokes"

I have been in the same situation, as much as we may love them, all the we done for them, he will pawn his wheel chair for drug money, then call u to take him to shelter!

When my mom passed away me and my sister had to legally have our oldest sister evicted so that we could sell the house that we had taken care of, we owned it, and paid taxes on for over 15 years to recover some of our loses! Then, paid first and last, deposit and connection fees on her apartment, she asked if we would buy her a car, after all, shouldn't she get her part!

Good luck and God Bless!


reallyready46 replies on 2/3/2016 10:21 am:
Thank you for your kinds words. I guess we all have someone in our families that just seems to be a waste.

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