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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Did I miss something???  

reallyready46 64M
530 posts
12/12/2016 10:51 pm
Did I miss something???

So there is this blog I follow. For the past several months guys have been getting bashed, I get some of what this couple is complaining about. Bad manners, bad behavior, not showing and other things.

So they were complaining about guys not bring gifts for her, in particular wine she likes. I point out that I have never seen a post on what she likes, or drinks. Also I made the comment about not being a common expectation when meeting. I was told I have no manners. For the record I can see being invited to dinner and bringing something. Maybe even an all day affair. This is something all new, or is it?

The other thing that has been talked about on this blog is how fat guys are. She stated that an over 6 ft guy that weighted 190 lbs was fat. Now my Doctor tells me that 200 lbs would be a great weight for me to reach ( right now I am at 213 ), Hell if this poor dude is fat at that weight and height then I must be huge!

Also stated has been, she will not give foreplay to a guy. A guy that sees her nude should get an hard on just seeing her. But then one of their complaints is, yup, guys do not give her foreplay! When I asked why she expects it and not give, I was told it was a dumb question to ask and refused to answer.

If you do find this blog, good luck because they erase all the post except for one. I guess this way no one can really see what they are saying long term. So what do others think? I would love to hear from the ladies also.

slow_n_easy_007 53F
302 posts
12/13/2016 3:37 pm

 yes dear we all have preferences but you can go overboard. that sounds like a lot of expectations that leads to disappointments, not a good way to live.... I find it much easier to be easy going with few demands. mostly happy. and then sometimes truly delighted. take each experience as life hands it to you and enjoy....
Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man.
--Benjamin Franklin


reallyready46 replies on 12/13/2016 4:47 pm:
Great point about taking experiences as they arrive

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