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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

IS IT REALLY worth being on here???  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
10/24/2017 10:16 am
IS IT REALLY worth being on here???

So the question I find myself asking is it worth my time and or money being on here? Pondering this brings me to several areas of thought.

First there is the site. Over the years stories of people stopping payment for gold membership which suddenly just turns itself back on has always made me wonder if its worth signing up. Back several years ago I did sign up for a couple of months. What did I get for my money? NOTHING. In spite of the advertising on this site about meeting people by being gold I got nothing. No in case you are wondering I am not silly enough to think that I can be a gold member and have a different woman every night just at a snap of my fingers. IM works at times on here and other times not at all. The spend points to be a fan is a joke. One use to be able to message your #1 fan. I guess that has stopped. I have sent two messages to the site asking why, a month later nothing communicated back.

Then there are the woman..... boy oh boy. Seems like they all want Brad Pitt as a hung black guy, well and knock off a few years and oh if you are a couple make him Bi and make sure you have a KIK also. Expect the guy to chase you for months on end, then get pissed off when the guy finally stops because he realize he is being played and that this is going nowhere. Some as frosting on the cake will whine about not finding any men or guys that follow through. Well try looking at yourself first.

Over the years I have stayed true to my message. My profile is filled out. I have a couple of pictures. I have made the best attempt to put myself forward. For all the work and time. Mostly nothing at all. I have met some good people on here. But the numbers are just so slanted the other way. Yes I do know that not everyone is attracted to me, just as I am not attracted to everyone on here. I have been real about this reality. So where the Hell have I went wrong?

ClydeCouple2 53M/51F
709 posts
11/5/2017 3:39 am

 I have to agree. this site is not really geared to helping single men be successful in their search. Hell, even as a couple we find it difficult at best.

Now if you are a ladies, and you want alot to chose from......this is he place.
Bill and June
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