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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Confused.....once again  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
10/6/2010 9:08 pm
Confused.....once again



Why are men so damn confusing? Why do you do this to women? Do you enjoy making us crazy? Causing drama? Making us cry? Men are so good at causing drama....all kinds. Drama in relationships. Drama in friendships. Drama at just the right moment even.

Why do men do this? I mean I am so totally confused. Baffled. At my wits end. Can someone explain this to me? I mean I may be blonde but I do have a brain and this is beyond me.

I mean a man comes into a womans life. Wines and dines her. Makes a friendship with her. Dates her. Talks to her. Shares with her. Then when she begins to fall for him......NOPE! SORRY SWEETY NOT INTO RELATIONSHIPS!!!! What the hell?!?!?!

So the woman decides that she will stick it out in whatever capacity she is allowed. She continues to be your friend. Your lover. Your pal. Your buddy. Your savior. Your everything. Then when all seems at an even keel.....you simply walk away leaving her devastated.

She begins to finally pick up the pieces of her broken heart. She begins to move on. She comes to peace in a sense. She misses you but knows that it is better this way. She begins to date. She even finds a nice guy that wants the same things in life as she does. Then what happens.......

You come back on the scene. With a simple phone call. A simple text. A simple message. The tornado comes crashing through her life turning it upside down once again. What does she do? She knows that all she will ever be to you is a friend with amazing benefits. A buddy. A pal. A confidant. A savior. A piece of ass. Does she give in and put her heart back on the line for you? Or does she move on, and find the happiness she deserves?

For me personally.....I am not looking for a happy ending. Nope, I want a happily ever after. A happily ever after has no ending. It is just happiness.....I want that. So please once again tell me why men are so confusing. Help me to understand.
PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
10/6/2010 10:19 pm

 Men are from Mars, Baby. They are a different species than us girls. It's part of what makes life interesting. I doubt I will ever understand men. That's ok tho as it does make for an interesting hobby

Hang in there .... Have faith.


BlackHeatLust 54M

10/6/2010 10:28 pm

 I for one am not a man who likes any form of dram nope...no way...nohow!

I guess that's why I haven't bene in a relationship of sorts in over 7 months?

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