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Really, I'm not......
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Really, I'm not......  I am not a cruel person. Really, I'm not. I know I make my friends mad at times, because they have to sit back and watch others take advantage of me. I am that girl....I let the guys treat me like crap. I fall for the sob story. I even feel sorry for my ex-husband and crap. My divorce was final in July of 2010, we had been separated since 11/2008. My ex and I have 2 daughters together. My ex has yet to pay anything toward the raising of his . So a few months ago he tells our that he has a brain tumor....so this upsets the girls. Of course I feel bad for him as well....kinda. I mean don't get me wrong, I don't want him to die..... but sometimes a little pain would make me feel better. Well he went back and forth to the doctors....specialists....MRIs, CAT scans, PET scans....all the crap. Well it was finally determined that it was something they would just watch. They didn't think it was anything malignant. Good....now start paying asshole! Sorry.... Fast forward to today, or actually last night. I see a post from my youngest on FB asking friends to pray for her dad. Great now what! So I ask what's up....she asks if her dad has said anything to me about his last MRI....nope. She then proceeds to tell me that now the doctors think it may be malignant. Okay I really don't want the asshole to die. I do actually still care for him. I mean we were together for 20+ years. We have two beautiful daughters together. We went through some hard shit together. So here I am thinking about me....what happens if he dies? How will I raise my on my own....I mean crap...I really need the money he is SUPPOSED to be paying me. Now he might die? So here we go again. How much is true? Do I believe him? Should I advise him to get ALOT of life insurance? I know I sound cruel... But if something happens to him....my youngest is screwed. Her big sister will be taken care of by the inlaws....but mini me..... I have a feeling it will be just the two of us left to conquer the world. Sorry needed to vent....can't do it around mini me. Another tantrum in my nursery!   |
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If the ex dies, mini me will get a monthly check from social security until she is 18 I believe. I think it may even be the same or more than what he is supposed to pay in child support. Take a deep breath and exhale. Now to just handle the emotional chaos.
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Unfortunately any life insurance he took out would not have to pay on any known existing conditions... So SS is your only help... Though if he becomes disabled due to this condition, Mini might qualify then...
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