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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Bitchy Baby!  

80sbaby71 52F
7339 posts
10/22/2011 11:09 pm
Bitchy Baby!
I really am a nice person. I am! I do my best to be nice to everyone even when I end up getting hurt. Just the way I am....and believe me it happens quite a bit because I am too nice!

So tonight I hurt someone's feelings. Didn't do it intentionally. But it happened nonetheless.

I am at the point in my life where I want a relationship. Not just a sexual relationship, but the whole shebang! I want someone I can hang out with...in and out of the bedroom. (it says that in my profile even!) A guy I can talk to. A guy that I can<b> snuggle </font></b>with. A guy that wants me for me.

But I have a friend that it seems that whenever we see each other it is like a HUGE elephant is in the room. It is sexual tension. Like I feel like at anytime there is going to be "the push". A kiss, a cop something that will preclude..."HEY WANNA FUCK?"

He doesn't do it intentionally. I know that. But it has just been weighing on my mind. And tonight....I told him that he might as well get it in his head....BABY IS NOT HAVING SEX!

Have you ever gotten to that point? The end of your rope? And like I said...he isn't doing it intentionally...but it still was driving me crazy....

*****ok, so the pic wasn't what I was looking for...but hey it's my blog and I liked it!!!*****
BlackHeatLust 54M

10/23/2011 12:22 am

 I hear ya Baby and letting him know what's on your mind upfront makes things go a lot smoother I think?

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80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/23/2011 8:12 am
    Quoting BlackHeatLust:
    I hear ya Baby and letting him know what's on your mind upfront makes things go a lot smoother I think?
Kinda made him a little uncomfortable. Which is the way I feel when I am around him. I like him as my friend. But nothing will ever come of it because of the tension.....Maybe this was a wake up call.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/23/2011 8:13 am
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OMG!!! You are David Beckham?!?!?! I need proof that he looks like you! Send pics quickly!!!! lol


toothysmile 58M
16539 posts
10/23/2011 2:36 pm
i know what you mean. don't worry about it. he got the point. in a way he hurt your feelings too, so don't feel too guilty about hurting his. he's a big boy, he will get over it.

hugs.

come visit me
the bright side of the moon


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
10/23/2011 10:08 pm

 There aloways comes a time when everyone in the room has to deal with the elephant in the corner. Sometimes it's hard to do, but necessary. Sounds like you did it as well as could be expeccted.
Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/24/2011 7:30 am
    Quoting toothysmile:
    i know what you mean. don't worry about it. he got the point. in a way he hurt your feelings too, so don't feel too guilty about hurting his. he's a big boy, he will get over it.

    hugs.

    come visit me
    the bright side of the moon
I know...but it's hard for me to hurt people. Thanks for the hug...it felt nice


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/24/2011 7:30 am
    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    There aloways comes a time when everyone in the room has to deal with the elephant in the corner. Sometimes it's hard to do, but necessary. Sounds like you did it as well as could be expeccted.
I tried! I really, really did... Baby


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/24/2011 7:56 am
    Quoting  :
Was just being honest. If you wanna hang out, great...but if you want to come over thinking you are gonna get lucky...Don't stop by!


sonic_n_sideshow 51M/53F
15101 posts
10/25/2011 3:39 pm

 I like that pic too!

I don't think that was hurting someone's feelings. I think that you needed to be upfront and that is always a better approach!
I am a celebration of willful chaos and a hugger.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
10/25/2011 6:39 pm
    Quoting sonic_n_sideshow:
    I like that pic too!

    I don't think that was hurting someone's feelings. I think that you needed to be upfront and that is always a better approach!
I know!!!! HAWT!!! Well I do my best not to hurt others feelings (usually end up being the one hurt in the end anyway!).


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