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Better to keep my mouth SHUT!  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
5/5/2012 2:00 pm
Better to keep my mouth SHUT!

Went and hung out with my friend CJ last night. It was nice. We can snuggle on the couch and watch tv. No pressures, no expectations, just hanging out.

This has been a long week. Not a "bad" week, just long. You can tell the end of school is nearing. are acting like bigger squirrels than usual. Staff is definitely nuts! Lol...

Have had alot on my mind lately. Questions. Thoughts. I read things and it brings back memories. Hear a song on the radio and it makes me think of people.

Ok, here is the point that you might wanna stop reading.

Seriously....

Getting ready to let loose some pent up rage....kinda....

I am tired of hearing people bitch and moan about their life sucking so much when they are the reason it sucks! I mean HELLLO! If you aren't making an effort to better your life then suck it up and shut up!
I know I gripe. But the difference is that I am trying. I put myself out there. I get my heart broken by people. And guess what? I pick up the pieces, dust myself off....and start all over again. Lesson learned.

I really don't like liars. And I am seeing that quite a bit lately. In my everyday life. I see it on the Bookface place. And it is getting old. I mean hello peeps...we are adults, let's be adults. Don't lie to your wife/husband, bf/gf, s/o. If you aren't happy, then say something! It might be a two way street. You might actually both find that you need to work on things together. And amazingly you might be happier in the long run.

I have alot of thoughts in my head right now. My life. My love life. My choices. And lots of questions. Really not ready to "voice" them yet though. Soon, very soon though I think I will have to make some choices. And ask some unsettling questions.

Ok, I feel better now...kinda. Lol.... You may now go back to your regularly scheduled playtime.

Love, hugs and big wet kisses from me the baby to you.




mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
5/5/2012 4:54 pm

Hugs to you.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/6/2012 12:13 am

Thanks


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/6/2012 1:29 am

I want you to voice stuff. My endless curiosity as always bubbles to the front. Hugs!!


iscream3762 68M
1 post
5/6/2012 2:07 am

I feel, as you do, I am tired of trusting people, getting stolen from, lied to, etc., and having to dust myself off AGAIN!! I treat others as I want to be treated. I don't understand people who live their lives that way!! Thanks for sharing!

We have alot in common, not sure we match but I'd like to know more. Alan


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/6/2012 7:32 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I want you to voice stuff. My endless curiosity as always bubbles to the front. Hugs!!
Well sometimes it comes back to bite me in the butt! But for the most part it is a good thing. Just knowing when and how to say things is the big part....


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/6/2012 7:33 am

    Quoting iscream3762:
    I feel, as you do, I am tired of trusting people, getting stolen from, lied to, etc., and having to dust myself off AGAIN!! I treat others as I want to be treated. I don't understand people who live their lives that way!! Thanks for sharing!

    We have alot in common, not sure we match but I'd like to know more. Alan
It isn't a good feeling at all. But better than totally giving up!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/6/2012 1:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Love you too Norrin.


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
5/6/2012 6:23 pm

I guess one of the things that has become clear to me as I get older is that I am responsible for whatever happens to me. Did I believe that lie? Yep. Did that. Maybe I should have known better. Did I slant my conversation to make things sound better to her? If I did, then I have to accept whateger her reaction was because I pushed her that way.

Nobody else will take responsability for me. Damn! I wish they would!

Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/7/2012 4:53 pm

    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    I guess one of the things that has become clear to me as I get older is that I am responsible for whatever happens to me. Did I believe that lie? Yep. Did that. Maybe I should have known better. Did I slant my conversation to make things sound better to her? If I did, then I have to accept whateger her reaction was because I pushed her that way.

    Nobody else will take responsability for me. Damn! I wish they would!
So agree with you on this....


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