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This is a Friday?  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
5/11/2012 7:56 pm
This is a Friday?

Wow, not sure this is a good indication of how my weekend is going to go.

Last night was bad. Didn't start that way...but it ended on a very bad note.

Mini me had a youth function to go to. So off we went. Now granted I work on the S.side of the city, mini goes to school on the S.side, the function is on the S.side as well. But we live on the N.side. And we had to kill a few hours before the function. Sorry, but in this day and time of gas prices...and being a single mom, just can't afford it!

So, get to the function. Had been on a MAJOR hunt for a white formal for mini for an upcoming youth funtion. Couldn't find one! So made plans with Pony to have her make a dress for mini. Measured mini, was ready to go!!! Then find out "Oh, thought you knew we aren't having the girls wear white now." NOPE!

Ok, so one less worry I guess. Then the girls go to practice their thing. I come back and find mini in tears. Turns out the dance moves she had spent the last month or so learning...has been changed. Right now...change is not good with her. That and she had a ton of homework, and a lot of studying to do for a major algebra test. And we didn't leave til after 9pm. So needless to say she had a major meltdown.

Which meant I didn't sleep. Too worried about her. Things had been looking good. Depression wasn't as prevalent. Last night took us back a few strokes....

Also found out yesterday my boss would be out today for meetings, so I would be covering her classes. They all went smoohtly! Yay me!!!

I get a call from the front office say I have a delivery....I was expecting something from my oldest in GA. She sent me a dozen (assorted colors) roses. They were beautiful I love her.

Fast forward to home. Alone. Quiet. And then...phone rings. It is an aunt here in the city. But when I answer it is her . (This aunt has been undergoing cancer treatment) This took my breath away, I was expecting the worst. But it wasn't my aunt, or at least not this one. It turns out another one....had passed in her sleep within that hour.

This aunt looked spitting image of my grandmother...this will be hard. I have to call my uncle in TX once I know details. Not the way I wanted to reconcile. Not the way I thought my Mother's day would go either. I think this will be a hard week...




mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
5/11/2012 8:44 pm

That is bad news

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








BlackRose17 58M
1157 posts
5/11/2012 8:50 pm

Hi my dear listen to me when i say that the lord our God won't put you through anything you can't handle. and yes i feel a little down myself my mothers gone too but i know in my heart she's in a much better place so give thanks to God nad he'll help you deal with it.

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY

THE CUN-JUICE-CRAVER


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/11/2012 11:27 pm

I'm so sorry. Your aunt is in a better place, though I know that doesn't ease your pain. Maybe this will create a warm reconciliation with your uncle. Miracles happen. You will be in my prayers.
Hugs!!!


rm_Squidley1958 65M
326 posts
5/12/2012 7:42 am

Sorry to hear that.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:44 am

Yes, it was expected...but unexpected none the less.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:44 am

    Quoting BlackRose17:
    Hi my dear listen to me when i say that the lord our God won't put you through anything you can't handle. and yes i feel a little down myself my mothers gone too but i know in my heart she's in a much better place so give thanks to God nad he'll help you deal with it.

    HAPPY MOTHERS DAY
Very true.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:45 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you Norrin.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:46 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I'm so sorry. Your aunt is in a better place, though I know that doesn't ease your pain. Maybe this will create a warm reconciliation with your uncle. Miracles happen. You will be in my prayers.
    Hugs!!!
Thank you. Yes, she is with her parents....her siblings...her husband. And miracles do happen.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:46 am

Thank you Squidley.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
5/12/2012 7:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Puss...much appreciated.


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