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Nice to be loved  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
6/11/2012 9:55 pm
Nice to be loved

First off I need to say thank you to everyone that commented on my blog post. I needed to hear the things that were said.

I also need to say thank you to a couple of friends that reached out and smacked me so to speak. A fellow blogger sent me an email and told me that this was something I needed to really stop and think about before rushing into things and making a bad decision. Another blogger sent me a message on the Bookface telling me to suck it up! A very sweet guy (and major pain in my ass) read my blog and called me to check on me. Even my oldest in GA had read my Bookface comments/posts and called to check on me.

I felt good knowing that people cared enough to reach out to me. Thank you!



Yes, I have made some decisions this past weekend. I actually made a post on my Bookface page and my "courter" (really need to come up with a better name...made I should call him my bf) posted back a very hurtful comment. He later confessed that he did it partly to light a fire under my ass to talk to him. But at the same time he said he figured it probably killed all chances with him.

We talked Thurs. evening. I talked to mini again. More drama there. I went over to his house Fri. night and the first thing we did....was just stand there and hold each other in a hug. We BOTH needed that. I spent the weekend with him. No, not like that. Just being together. Talking. Spending time together.

Friday night we went to dinner (he remembered that there was a restaraunt that had a drink that I adore and haven't had in quite awhile) then back to his place to watch a movie. Sat. we ran errands, weeded his flower beds, and he put down mulch. Sounds boring...but for me...spending time together was great. And a neighbor came over and he introduced me as his gf. Sat. night we had plans to go see a play fairly close to where he grew up. So we left early to take the scenic drive through his hometown. Then had dinner at a local Mexican restaraunt that i've frequented before with the Pony. Play was a riot.

Sunday...he was domestic. He felt that he was boring me. How? By fixing me breakfast? We ran more errands. Groceries, laundry, little things that were made all the better because he always held my hand, walked by and kissed my head, handed me the remotes, gave me a new book to read....

Did I mention he cleared out his garage so I could park my car in there so i'd never have to walk outside in the rain again? Or that he didn't laugh when I ran back up the stairs because there was a spider? Yeah...the little things that make my heart go pitter patter.

Mini me asked me last night while we were sitting at the drive in together...."Why aren't the two of you a couple yet?" Did I mention how much I love that ?



mstrunvrsgdrkck3 66M
252 posts
6/11/2012 10:34 pm

I pay for love by an hourly rate. Depending on the allowance mom gives me.

#ALDOTALENTLESSPARROT


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
6/13/2012 12:52 am

See! Mini Me wants the best for you! And she loves you! Good for you!


BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
6/13/2012 12:51 pm

All that, and, as you said in another post, the sun still came up this morning! A lot of times things have a way of working out if we will just let them. Yes, one needs to take charge of one's life, but sometimes it's not so good to try to rush things along.

Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


rm_Squidley1958 65M
326 posts
6/13/2012 9:56 pm

Good for you!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:56 am

    Quoting mstrunvrsgdrkck3:
    I pay for love by an hourly rate. Depending on the allowance mom gives me.
Damn! Why didn't I think of that?


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:57 am

    Quoting  :

Definitely all about the little things. I am not a materialistic person....nope, I want the little things in life like love!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:57 am

    Quoting  :

Pretty sure I did!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:58 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    See! Mini Me wants the best for you! And she loves you! Good for you!
Yes, I know!!!! Love you!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:58 am

    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    All that, and, as you said in another post, the sun still came up this morning! A lot of times things have a way of working out if we will just let them. Yes, one needs to take charge of one's life, but sometimes it's not so good to try to rush things along.
True...


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/14/2012 7:58 am

Thanks Squidley!


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
6/16/2012 12:34 pm

I am happy for you

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/17/2012 9:10 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks AO!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/17/2012 9:11 pm

Yeah, kinda happy myself!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
6/17/2012 9:11 pm

    Quoting  :

I think I will keep him!


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