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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Laying all the Cards on the TABLE!  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
7/16/2012 8:10 am
Laying all the Cards on the TABLE!
Ok...so at what point in a relationship do you bare it all? Lay all your cards on the table? Tell all the deep dark secrets? Bare your soul so to speak?

This weekend I did just that. It was a little scary, quite honestly. I mean, hello....it could be taken to heart and they either accept you and love you more or....They decide that you truly are someone they want nothing to do with.

So my question to all you wonderful dirty boys & girls here in Blogland, USA is:

When is the best time to tell all? Or hell you get the point, right?
First date
Within the first month of seeing each other
When you become an "official" couple
The night before your wedding
Sometime within the first year
Are you serious? Ain't nobody digging up those bones!!!!!
Other...please comment



BusterTheMaster 71M
4709 posts
7/16/2012 8:43 am

 I'm not a huge fan of the "tell everything" school myself, and, yes, I am fully aware that sword cuts both ways. She doesn't need to necessarily know about everything I ever did, and I don't necessarily want to know about everything she ever did. There are some things that are just better left unsaid.
Buster The Master
Second star to the right and then straight ahead until morning...


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
7/16/2012 11:06 pm

 Like a fart .... You let it out a little at a time, hoping they don't see your crazy side.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:29 am
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I do agree to a point. I am not all about the holding back...and waiting for the fallout!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:30 am
    Quoting BusterTheMaster:
    I'm not a huge fan of the "tell everything" school myself, and, yes, I am fully aware that sword cuts both ways. She doesn't need to necessarily know about everything I ever did, and I don't necessarily want to know about everything she ever did. There are some things that are just better left unsaid.
Good point.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:31 am
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It's a risk. I totally understand the looking back issues.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:32 am
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Very true. I don't think saying everything in one huge dump is wise at all.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:33 am
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Well this would be someone that you have gotten very close to. Maybe that person who could be in your life as a partner for a very, very long time.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:33 am
    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Like a fart .... You let it out a little at a time, hoping they don't see your crazy side.
But sometimes the crazy just slides out on it's own!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/19/2012 6:34 am
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There will definitely be someone for you. Just as I stopped looking is when mine came along.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/22/2012 9:47 pm
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Totally with you on this one CJ! OMG....kinda wonder what kinda skeletons you have in your closet....


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/23/2012 10:51 am
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Lol...hugs!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
7/27/2012 3:57 am
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Very well said, I totally agree with you.


bigthickhead 74M
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7 posts
8/9/2012 11:28 pm

 If you think of getting serious then things in your past may be discussed. It would be better to speak in generic terms and not name names.You are in life what you are at this moment. Because we learn the past is not what your are now.


bustybettyboop 57F
59311 posts
8/18/2012 9:14 am

 maybe not on the first date...might not be a second date...but i think if its important info it should be told! some things are pertinent on first date though..like i'm really a man/woman or i have an std or i'm married! but most things can wait!
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