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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Planning  

80sbaby71 52F
7366 posts
8/26/2012 7:36 am
Planning

I'm planning a wedding.

Nothing big. Did that way back in '90. That was a fun ordeal! I'm a senior in hs, planning a wedding in the midst of finals and such!!!! And it wasn't a small affair either. Nope! Maid of Honor, 2 bridesmaids, jr bridesmaid, 2 candlelighters & a flower girl.

Now this time around its going to be a small intimate affair. K, myself, mini and the officiant. I mean that's all that's gonna be upfront. The wedding is going to be small. K's parents, his brothers/sisters-in-laws and his nephews. My "sister" Pony and her family, my close friend, and....yeah, no real family. My oldest wants to come in from Georgia. I want get here but she doesn't have the money or the time. So thinking on that.

The officiant is up in the air as well. Neither of us belong to a church home. Mini me suggested her pastor (lol, where her dad & grandfather go). I think its best if we go with someone else. Several people have thrown ideas out. One that several of my friends have mentioned, is a man from our local group. Nice guy. K isn't to keen on the idea, though! I think it's the idea of him from a sex group.

HELP! Lol
rm_Squidley1958 65M
326 posts
8/26/2012 8:37 am

 use a judge/JP, they are the simplest solution...


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
8/27/2012 12:11 am

 What kind of officiant does K want? Religious or non religious? I know several officiant possibilities, NOT from a sex group, LOL. Once I started thinking, I had bunches. It's weird. I had no idea I knew so many people who could marry people. I bet there are people K knows at work that are 'official'.


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/27/2012 4:29 am

 Yeah but then not as "family" oriented with our family. Believe me, I have thought about it.

Still all about saying screw it and running off to Vegas!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/27/2012 4:29 am
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Hmmmm


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/27/2012 4:30 am
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We have a spot to do it. Just need the person.....


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/27/2012 4:31 am
    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    What kind of officiant does K want? Religious or non religious? I know several officiant possibilities, NOT from a sex group, LOL. Once I started thinking, I had bunches. It's weird. I had no idea I knew so many people who could marry people. I bet there are people K knows at work that are 'official'.
Doesn't matter if the person is religious or not. Just as long as they do the job.

I mean HELLO...we met for the first time through a damn sex site! And some of my best friends are from said sex place!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/31/2012 4:45 am
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Only thing stopping me is Mini me!


80sbaby71 52F
5516 posts
8/31/2012 4:46 am
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AO you are so sweet!


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