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My mind is my worst enemy
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My mind is my worst enemy Even though I'm smiling a heck of a lot lately, my mind is working over time... There's a few of you know that I am an over thinker and not one of my best characteristics I tell ya probably cause I'm a huge chicken  I'm the type of person who hears or reads something, I will think about it way too much for good reason or so mind keeps telling me anyway. Is this for me? Is this what I want? Does this really feel right? By the time my mind answers these questions, its usually too late..So then comes the weighing out options, geez it never ends and when I finally figure out that this is the right thing, again its too late so I never win and convince myself that I will truly never let anyone in.. Am I destined to be like this? I never used to be and its a scary thing. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N |
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I doubt it is a bad thing. You are cautios This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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I totally feel you. I tend to ruminate a lot too. Don't sweat it. It's just behavior and we can change it or at least mitigate it. I find two things are really helpful. 1. Thought records. (I can tell you more about those if you want or just google them) 2. Exercise. All are welcome to an audience with The Magnificent One oldirtybacchus
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naw nothing wrong with being a thinker it shows at least to me you still care and from what I have understood you would be well worth the wait the the things that past by quickly are fleeting and not lasting not worth the second thought,,,, but the ones that wait for you to be comfortable they are likely the keepers.......... and happy almost Friday  If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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I doubt it is a bad thing. You are cautios  If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Your thoughts about everything in life that affect you evolve with time and learning....wouldn't over analyze things too much, just take time to let everything settle in and let your instincts do the rest. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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The hard part is convincing myself I actually deserve it.. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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I totally feel you. I tend to ruminate a lot too. Don't sweat it. It's just behavior and we can change it or at least mitigate it. I find two things are really helpful. 1. Thought records. (I can tell you more about those if you want or just google them) 2. Exercise. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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It sounds like that instead of going with the flow to see if it works....you look for reasons to convince yourself not to..... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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Cautious yes and my thinking has me awake at 3am This is not meant to offend any one in any way.
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It sounds like that instead of going with the flow to see if it works....you look for reasons to convince yourself not to..... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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I hope you got some sleep. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Being cautious is not always a bad thing , but there comes a time when you do have to take chances if you want to find someone special . I guess it's just the cowboy in me  
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Being cautious is not always a bad thing , but there comes a time when you do have to take chances if you want to find someone special . If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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The way I see it, is that sometimes you have to close down the mind & go with your heart. I know that it's hard. I have the same type of mind as you. Over thinking and then it's usually too late. When my heart & faith takes over, it feels right. That's my 5 cents worth. As you know, we can't put 2 cents in anymore as we don't have pennies, lol. Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts
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The way I see it, is that sometimes you have to close down the mind & go with your heart. I know that it's hard. I have the same type of mind as you. Over thinking and then it's usually too late. When my heart & faith takes over, it feels right. That's my 5 cents worth. As you know, we can't put 2 cents in anymore as we don't have pennies, lol. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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It can be scary to be thoughtful, but it is a human process and one that we need to make valued judgements otherwise we just jump in with our two feet and end up risking loosing out or getting hurt. But when the time is right you will always know it - no doubt about it, no questions to be asked, no answers expected, there is no explanation or substitute for human instinct.
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It can be scary to be thoughtful, but it is a human process and one that we need to make valued judgements otherwise we just jump in with our two feet and end up risking loosing out or getting hurt. But when the time is right you will always know it - no doubt about it, no questions to be asked, no answers expected, there is no explanation or substitute for human instinct. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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