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What guys do to satisfy a woman...  

geoguyinla 57M
145 posts
1/19/2009 8:41 am
What guys do to satisfy a woman...

I can't speak for all men, obviously. But I also can't believe I am the only one who thinks this way... I am sure there are many men on this site who will do as much as I and more. But likewise, I also believe there are just as many who do less. I hope I am somewhere in between... with a little more weight to the better side.

One of the most important things I do is keep my body in good physical shape. I work out hard, and work more towards endurance than bulk. One not so obvious reason is safety. In order to achieve maximum bulk, one has to work with increasingly heavier weights and push oneself to failure.

I live alone and do not want 200-300 pounds of weight to fall on my chest or neck. I believe that would cause some major injury and be unsatisfying to both myself and the woman who allows me to pleasure her... ya know?

So I work towards endurance with many repetitions for long periods of times. When I work it 'hard' I will go for three to four hours and perform numerous reps. This has a twofold benefit. First, it gives me great muscle definition which is aesthetically pleasing to the eye. Second, it trains my body to be able to move vigorously for hours without getting exhausted.

I know, I know, you ladies sometimes don't want to be flogged by a penis for hours on end all the time. I get that. So I also exercise my cock to be able to cum when I want to. How? You may ask...

Well, what it comes down to is masturbation and my web cam. I use the web cam to maintain a conscious connection with an audience to average out the frustration levels. I will prolong my erection and efforts until there is a turning point in the number of new viewers and votes. It seems like 45 minutes is a maximum that on average should not be exceeded. Unless, for whatever reason, there is enough enthusiasm in the air to continue on longer. I kinda like that. Once again it stretches my physical abilities and gives me feedback on my performance.

Also, I try to vary my positional angles and maximize the visual experience. I also again use this as an exercise routine. One of the things that seems very popular is when I balance myself with one hand and thrust my cock into my well oiled other free hand. This does two things. First it gives the visual impression of what it would be like to have me right there with you as I am thrusting into you. And second, it allows me to work my lower abdomen and get a visual cue on how my body looks in motion.

The lower abdomen group is one of the most difficult to work. So I alternate my balancing and holding hand to ensure even iterations in my movements. And let me tell you... If you've ever felt the lower row of your abdomen burn, you will know there is definitely some major muscle work going on in a full aerobic body sense.

The<b> quickie </font></b>however is a little more difficult. But with enthusiasm, some dirty talk, and some definite mental focus, I can get it done in 10 minutes or less. But it has to be a vocal desire. It has to be something she wants.

And that is the key!

Desire!

One thing that is necessary for me is to be desired. And, it needs to be communicated. I can not read minds. But I can read people. I try to learn about what her body language is telling me. And I enjoy discussing desires. It is important to ferret out the differences... each woman... I know this is gonna come off so cliche`... but each woman really is like a snowflake... [blech]

That sounds so trite, but it is so true. That is one of the major reasons why I dislike one night stands. It is almost impossible to know beforehand what a woman is really needing to be satisfied, unless there is complete and open communication.

Unfortunately, most women have a lot of difficulty vocalizing their sexual desires. Which is why this site is so cool. The written word seems easier to decipher than a session of 20 questions. There are even little 'between the lines' things that can open up new insights into what will work for a particular woman.

Listen up men! Read what she is writing you! It will tell you what you need to know to satisfy her... If you already know that? Disregard this paragraph.

Women?

Us men love it when you look at us and we can tell you have been touched in ways that you will remember for a long time. Some of us even crave it. I know I do. I've always enjoyed the way certain women look at me. With a look they can get me higher than any drug out there. And, I Love That!

I will torture myself physically to increase my endurance. I will study your movements to figure out what you are enjoying. And, I will make certain a woman wants to see me again.

I also monitor my diet pretty well to make certain that I taste good. Fridays are really my only day off right now. And by Wednesday I am already limiting my consumption of dairy products, increasing my fruit intake, and making sure I am not downing tons of coffee.

From Thursday evening on, I almost entirely exist on Wheat Germ, Celery, Pineapple, Apples, Cinnamon, and juice. Don't get me wrong, I still eat that all throughout the week, but in the beginning of the week I also eat cheese and drink a lot of milk. They are excellent sources of protein. Which increases muscle vitality. But if I know in advance I am going to be playing... I will use alternate foods to ensure nothing gets in the way of a satisfying experience. If there were no women around... Us guys would probably all be eating cheetos and taking naps all day.

Because all this effort is so that I can satisfy a woman completely... should the opportunity arise.

Because you see? It's not even definite that anything will occur. With such a slim window of opportunity, it is amazing I get any at all!

But I'll tell you this:
When I get to feel that feeling of your eyes looking at me like I just did something wonderful? I am at my most contented... until my mind starts racing forward to find the next key to your desire.

And this doesn't even really scratch the surface... I can't fit all the words necessary to explain... Who is going to read it anyway?

But guys?
If you've read this far, you owe it to yourselves to let the ladies know how far you are willing to go to give them pleasure.

And ladies?
Thank you for the opportunity to be of service!




avelvetmouth 52F

2/4/2009 12:37 pm

Do you show your face when you cam? personally I don't care about cock/body if I couldn't see the face I would dream about kissing!

Like a Halo In Reverse


geoguyinla 57M
187 posts
2/4/2009 9:06 pm

In a personal one to one cam I would show my face...
...but if there are a lot of people watching? No, not so much.


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