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Date with Clarissa  

Insindiary 52M
263 posts
2/25/2014 5:52 pm
Date with Clarissa


Clarissa is Scott's wife. I hooked up with her once at a party at Reno's. She was so nervous. Her self-esteem is not great. She is a remarkably beautiful blonde, but she is<b> overweight. </font></b>I've known big girls who have confidence in spite of the fact that they don't fit society's size standards. They own it, and it can be sexy. I was cautious in playing with Clarissa. I wasn't sure if I wanted to. I remember we talked for a long time before getting physical. She was nervous, yes, but she was genuine, and kind of adorable.

That must have been two years ago. After that, I would see her occasionally, but mostly in social situations. Scott is a "sometimes" play partner of my wife, Tricia. He extended an invitation to contact Kerri any time for play, but she never asked me directly. I never contacted her, either.

Until a few weeks ago. I wasn't sure how that would go. She might have lost interest in me, or at least thought it was weird that I was contacting her after all this time. But she was enthusiastic about a play date, and we put it on our calendars. She came to my place on Sunday.

"Tricia is working a lot more, lately," I told her. "I have a lot of time on my hands. Plus, she's completely in love with Phin. It's weird, but that makes it... ok for me to date whoever I want. I mean, I always could before, but I'm somehow less concerned about overstepping my bounds in dating. Everything just seems to line up these days where I'm looking for more play time. And you are at the top of my list."

"OK," she said. "My brain is going a mile a minute. I'm not going to ask why I'm at the top. I'm just going to enjoy this."

And she did. I did too. The sex was really good. She is a great kisser, she's very responsive, and she absolutely loves to suck cock. Also, her boobs are enormous, which is always awesome.

Afterward, we lay in bed and talked for a long time. "My brain is relaxed now," she said. "That's all you have to do if I'm babbling or my mind is racing. Just kiss me, and take my clothes off."

Clarissa and I have been in the same circles for a long time. She is a friend I am at ease with, simply because I've known her and her husband for several years. They are good people. Clarissa puts a lot of energy into raising their two . They are good .

"The play parties are hard," she said. "I often go home disappointed. Paula does too. It's always the same. She complains that she doesn't get noticed because she doesn't have enough curves. I don't get noticed because I have too many."

Paula is Clarissa's best friend. I didn't mention my own sexual negotiations with her at one of Reno's parties long ago. I disagree with Clarissa in that I think Paula has perfect curves. It's just something about her personality that tells me not to get too close.

But that statement of Clarissa's reaffirmed WHY I like her, and why I feel close to her. She is quiet and purposeful, and she's always inside her own head. She sits in the corner at parties, and she is often overlooked. And if you DO overlook her, you're missing out on a a very interesting girl with a rich life and an abundance of good will. I see someone in her very much like myself.

It was a very good date. I'm finding that I really like spending a lot of time with a woman and getting to know her. It's another reason why the prospects of casual sex at swinger parties are becoming less appealing to me. Clarissa and I did not set up another time to play, but I will ask her again. I hope she has the confidence to ask me too, if she wants to.


Insindiary 52M
153 posts
2/27/2014 4:03 am

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Hey, thank YOU for being the first person to comment on my blog in six months.


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