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Wanting more!  

rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/19/2009 8:12 pm
Wanting more!


So how long should someone give another person the benefit of the doubt, before they call it a day?
Being made to feel like a piece of crap most of the time is not good!
I know that most would tell me to run like fuck away from what I have to put up with.
But there is still a part of me, that still longs for what I had!
It's still there, but I have no idea of how to retrieve it.
If there is anyone out there, who has any idea of how I can get a spark back into my relationship, I would be eternally grateful.
I'm not one to give up without a fight, if I can help it!
Because I'm really coming to the end of my tether, & need some help from someone.
Anyone!


Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


justlooking6827 55F

2/19/2009 9:25 pm

That's a question for him. If he's not willing to answer, he's not worth your time.

It's not getting what you want...it's wanting what you've got.

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andyc188 58M

2/19/2009 9:43 pm

Needs the spark from both sides, one person doesn't make a relationship. X


rm_jimjoejim 74M
963 posts
2/20/2009 12:52 am

High Ms Deep,

If it's worth fighting for then it would be worthwhile seeking out professional help.

Organisations such as Relate have trained, experienced people who specialise in helping couples to sort out their relationships.

If he refuses to co-operate, then maybe you should question his commitment.

There is a possibilty that you deserve better.

Best of luck.

Jim


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
2/20/2009 10:17 am

Did I write that or did you, lol!


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
2/21/2009 3:25 pm

Hi is's me. 1st time saying something on a blog. As usual, GET RID OF THE FUCKER.
You are worth so much more. You are too good for him. Show him the door and change the locks.


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/23/2009 12:48 am

    Quoting justlooking6827:
    That's a question for him. If he's not willing to answer, he's not worth your time.
He also knows how unhappy I am, but doesn't have any answers either. We just seem to plod around in circles with neither of us knowing what to do to make it better.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/23/2009 12:51 am

    Quoting andyc188:
    Needs the spark from both sides, one person doesn't make a relationship. X
A spark?
At the moment I don't think even a blow torch could ignite any passion!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/23/2009 12:56 am

    Quoting rm_jimjoejim:
    High Ms Deep,

    If it's worth fighting for then it would be worthwhile seeking out professional help.

    Organisations such as Relate have trained, experienced people who specialise in helping couples to sort out their relationships.

    If he refuses to co-operate, then maybe you should question his commitment.

    There is a possibilty that you deserve better.

    Best of luck.

    Jim
Come on, even you must know, Glaswegians don't have any problems when it comes to women & sex.
It's all the womens fault!
& as for seeking help, well I think you already know the answer to that one?
Thanks for trying, anyway!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/23/2009 12:58 am

Well maybe you now know why I understand you so well?
Two of a kind!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
2/23/2009 1:06 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Hi is's me. 1st time saying something on a blog. As usual, GET RID OF THE FUCKER.
    You are worth so much more. You are too good for him. Show him the door and change the locks.
So this is big sis telling little sis what to do?
& how many years did it take you before you came to your senses?
It took me years to get you to see the light of day!
Might just take you as long with me!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


andyc188 58M

2/23/2009 11:28 am

You know you you should always take you're sister's advice, I do (my sister or your's. LO. X


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
4/27/2009 11:48 pm

    Quoting andyc188:
    You know you you should always take you're sister's advice, I do (my sister or your's. LO. X
She never listens to me either!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


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