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Me time!  

rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/12/2011 7:46 am
Me time!


Last Monday, I had my 1st, 'Me day', in what seemed like years.
Me & my partner had been working away from home near Southampton, last weekend & our company had given us a hotel while we were there.
The job finished early, so instead of driving home, in the early hours of the morning, as we usually do, I went back to the hotel & took advantage of it, till kicking out time at 11am.
We got up, had breakfast & then went on a magical mystery tour of the coast, from Southampton & ending up in Weymouth, my favorite seaside destination.
The weather that day, wasn't as nice as it had been on the Sunday.
It was very overcast, but at least it wasn't raining.
After a few pit-stops, along the coast, we ended up in Weymouth, were we found ourselves a nice little pub, that had a lovely open fire going & a large pan of mulled cider on the go.
After that, the other half decided that having a look around the shops with me, was not one of his favorite things in the world, so he went back to the van for a snooze.
So left to my own devices, I went exploring.
I love the weird & wonderful array of shops you only get at the seaside.
Even thou I didn't buy myself anything, (Trust me, if I had the money I would have), I ended up on the beach.
For those of you, who have never been to Weymouth, the sand there is absolutely wonderful.
It is so fine, that in the summer there is a man who makes the most wonderful sand sculptures with it.
His work was still there on my visit on Monday.
He had carved the cast of Johnny Depp version of Alice in Wonderland & the cast of Pooh Bear.
All out of only sand & water.
So after admiring his work for a little while, I made my way onto the sand.
Off came the shoes & there I was, beside the occasional walker, strolling along a nearly deserted beach.
I did get a few strange looks from the walkers, who were dressed up to the hilt with Winter clothes & boots & me<b> barefoot.
</font></b>But I didn't care.
To just walk along, with the soft sand beneath my feet was wonderful.
I spent about an hour, just lost in my own thoughts & the rest of my world, far behind me.
Nothing, in the past couple of years has come anywhere near it!


Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


BabyGurlMarie 61F

11/12/2011 8:33 am

sounds like so much fun.glad you enjoyed.


nerkohguy 63M

11/12/2011 8:34 am

Me Time is Awesome....Glad you had a great day

It's my story and I'm sticking to it...


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/12/2011 10:20 am

    Quoting  :

Alas, the other half doesn't think like that any more.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/12/2011 10:21 am

It was.
Not felt that relaxed in ages.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/12/2011 10:23 am

    Quoting nerkohguy:
    Me Time is Awesome....Glad you had a great day
It was just what the doctor ordered.
It was just a shame that I had to come home!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


lifebegins63 60M

11/12/2011 10:51 am

I spend a lot of time in Weymouth and agree it is lovely ... I also went in the sea today !!

regards


rockinr55 67M
1689 posts
11/12/2011 1:39 pm



Me time is important. I'm glad you had such a wonderful day.


Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.---E.E. Cummings



andyc188 58M

11/12/2011 3:59 pm

About time you had some time to yourself. Love Weymouth, often take the kids camping there. X


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
11/12/2011 7:19 pm

So you found a beach with sand.

Glad you listened (very rare) to me and didn't just drive home when he had finished.

So where is the photos of the sand sculptures? I love them and wish I could do them. But what heart break when the waves come in and take away all that hard work, a bit like the chalk artists, a bit of rain and it's all gone.


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:04 am

    Quoting lifebegins63:
    I spend a lot of time in Weymouth and agree it is lovely ... I also went in the sea today !!

    regards
I did wave to you when I passed your town.
I wasn't that brave to go for a swim on Monday.
Mind you, if the weather had been as nice as it is today, I may have had a dip?????
I just wish I lived a little closer to Weymouth, than I do now!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:11 am

    Quoting rockinr55:


    Me time is important. I'm glad you had such a wonderful day.

The only thing that was missing, that may have made the day, a whole lot better, was if the sun had come out to play.
But I can't really complain, for a November day in England, it wasn't that bad.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:13 am

    Quoting  :

All I need is a sandy beach.
No matter what the weather may bring.
I have been known to go paddling in the sea, when there has been snow on the sand.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:16 am

    Quoting andyc188:
    About time you had some time to yourself. Love Weymouth, often take the kids camping there. X
I really needed it.
Never been camping there, but I have stayed in a few of the beachfront guest houses.
You just can't beat Weymouth.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:20 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    So you found a beach with sand.

    Glad you listened (very rare) to me and didn't just drive home when he had finished.

    So where is the photos of the sand sculptures? I love them and wish I could do them. But what heart break when the waves come in and take away all that hard work, a bit like the chalk artists, a bit of rain and it's all gone.


Weymouth has even better sand, than most of Sydney's beaches!
I would have taken some pictures, but I hadn't expected to go to the seaside on Monday & hadn't charged the batteries in the camera.
I did try, but it was as dead as a dodo.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/13/2011 2:24 am

    Quoting  :

The idea is a nice one, but alas, money won't allow me to do it, too often.
Anyway, if I did it more often, it wouldn't be such a wonderful change, now would it?

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


satsubplus1 66M/45F  
4844 posts
11/13/2011 3:03 pm

Hey that's great you got some well deserved 'me time'
A lovely barefoot walk along the beach and the marvel of sand sculpture artwork
Southampton to Weymouth ...... Strip of, um ... Stop off at Studland Bay en route at all per chance? hehe.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
11/14/2011 4:06 am

What an absolutely wonderful day. I love it when stuff like that happens.


rm_3x23 59M
1590 posts
11/15/2011 3:46 pm

Happy to hear you had a lovely day.

On the good side, there were dog walkers and not cat walkers. Cats tend to bury their gifts, while dogs let them be admired. Walking bare foot around cat walkers on a beach is not a good idea.


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/16/2011 9:51 am

    Quoting satsubplus1:
    Hey that's great you got some well deserved 'me time'
    A lovely barefoot walk along the beach and the marvel of sand sculpture artwork
    Southampton to Weymouth ...... Strip of, um ... Stop off at Studland Bay en route at all per chance? hehe.


Sorry. I didn't stop off at Studland Bay.
Thought you may have been doing a little, 'Posing', on the beach there yourself!
Nothing really compares to walking along a nearly deserted beach & just listening to the waves crash on the shore.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/16/2011 9:54 am

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    What an absolutely wonderful day. I love it when stuff like that happens.
It was wonderful.
It has been years since I last did something, as spontaneous as that.
Just wish it wasn't as far away, as it is.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
11/16/2011 10:01 am

    Quoting rm_3x23:
    Happy to hear you had a lovely day.

    On the good side, there were dog walkers and not cat walkers. Cats tend to bury their gifts, while dogs let them be admired. Walking bare foot around cat walkers on a beach is not a good idea.

I will have to admit, that I did have to keep my eyes down, most of the time, as it not tread in one of the dogs, 'Offerings'!
For most of the year, dogs are not allowed on the beach.
But seeing that the Summer season is not technically finished with, they are allowed back on.
Not good for all year bare foot beach walkers, like me!

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


rm_wantitindeep 58F
1874 posts
12/5/2011 2:29 pm

If you're are on about West Quay shopping center in Southampton, I haven't made it there yet.
I much prefer Weymouth & it's weird little gift shops, to brows anytime.

Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!


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