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CARDINAL RULES OF SWINGING  

darknesswins 46F  
349 posts
4/18/2009 1:06 am
CARDINAL RULES OF SWINGING


I thought I'd repost these so people can remember them.

1. Safe, sane, and consensual
No coat....no poke...period...

2. Don't make it a competition

3. Don't let emotions get in the way

4. Communication and honesty are utmost

Follow these rules and you'll do just fine. Trust me I know from personal experience, breaking any of these rules even minutely will cause a lot of problems and heartache. And never say anything you don't mean just because your in the heat of the moment. The consequences can be fatal.

V



letsgetiton4889 55M/55F

9/22/2010 1:50 pm

Great advice to all, i think the exciting thing is the heat of the moment, just thinking of a fling is exciting. e-mail me


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
12/8/2014 4:46 pm

Don't forget "What happens at the club (or party, or whatever) stays at the club (or the party, or whatever." Violating confidences -- and, for better or worse, having someone mention interest in swinging to you is a confidence -- is a pretty jerky move...

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
6/22/2015 10:49 pm

Great advice - Great post


Panopticum 44M
2 posts
4/27/2021 7:27 am

Pesky emotions


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