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Why I love being bisexual...
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Why I love being bisexual... I've written on this subject many times before but I guess I just never really get tired of it. I LOVE being bisexual. I'm not a big fan of labels but I guess if I have to have one, bisexual is the one for me eh? LOL Some people will say I'm gay and I guess they're right. Call me gay if you want to, it doesn't bother me in the least. Of course I'd also love to hear you explain the fact that I REALLY enjoy making love/having sex with women?? Please, let me hear your thoughts on that one eh? LOL Of course the obvious point here is that I truly don't make a big deal out of it, one way or the other. I just enjoy having sex whether it's with women or men, it really doesn't matter much to me. As long as they're human beings, of age and breathing, I'm game. From time to time I do get 'cravings' that's for sure. One day I'll just be so hot to trot for a nice, warm, wet pussy and a nice soft, smooth, lovely woman to go with it. The next day, I'll be craving a nice hard, throbbing cock, along with some studly hard body that it comes attached to. One GOOD thing about being bisexual is that it doubles the 'playing field' that's for sure. Another interesting thing I've learned is that there are just a SHITLOAD of guys, around my age, married, professional, 'regular' guys who have absolutely no problem having sex with other men. When I say a SHITLOAD, I mean just that. The numbers are astounding and way outside of anything I would have thought possible before I became active. Amazing, simply amazing. And yes, a good number of them are in fact married, quite happily I might add, except for one thing, for whatever the reason they just are NOT getting enough sex at home OR the sex they are getting either has waaaaay to many strings tied to it or is not pleasurable or wild and kinky enough for them. Take your pick. All of these guys are cheating on their wife's, most have been married for a number of years and almost to a one, they ALL tell me that they love their wife's. (Just I like I do) So what drives us to look elsewhere for sex?? In my case its pretty cut and dried. My wife hasn't had ANY desire for sex in over 6-7 years, since she had her hysterectomy. I know that sounds like a cop out but its the facts of the situation. It certainly hasn't been from a lack of trying.. We've talked about it long and hard and no, she doesn't know I'm having sex outside of our marriage, but she really and truly doesn't have the least bit of desire. We've also been to therapists and the end result is the same, she has no desire. What's a horn-to do? I can only jack off so much.. Some of the guys I meet fall into this same boat but the vast majority do not. I would have to say that the rest are driven by a combination of plain old lust and/or need for something 'more' than they have and that my friends, gets fueled many times by porno. Especially in this day and age of instant, on-demand porno available via the internet, along with sites just like this one which make it oh so easy for guys to 'troll' for whatever they're looking for coupled with the never ending bombardment of sex in our modern culture in general and you begin to see how easy it is to fall prey to our desires.. I'm NOT passing judgment one way or the other. Lord knows, I'm the LAST person to do that. I'm just trying to explain and/or share my own observations here. I've said it many many times. When it comes to sex, guys are SOOO FUCKING easy. We really do NOT attach a lot of emotion to it UNLESS we're 'forced' to. For most guys, getting your dick wet is enough. We don't need or want a lot of other extraneous stuff. LOL When I'm with other guys it's just SO freaking simple. Clean, clear, plain old animal lust that drives us to climax. After that its MAYBE a handshake and off into the cool, crisp night ya go. Really, guys just need a place. Woman on the other hand are almost completely different 'animals'... You guys require love, bonding, intimacy and feelings to truly get 'off'. Really, even those of you who say you don't, be honest now... You do..  And there's NOTHING wrong with that. It's what makes the world go 'round so to speak and I have absolutely no problems with it what so ever!! Once again, just being an observer and chronicler here who happens to have a somewhat unique view on things only because I'm..... BISEXUAL! LOL You know I've said it many times and I mean it. T-girls or shemales, hold a special place in my heart, and pants. They afford me the best of both worlds. That wonderful, soft femininity coupled with a rock hard Mr. Winkie. The only thing that could POSSIBLY be better would be a for real, fully functional, hermaphrodite. OMG! Could you imagine such a person? Both male AND female contained within the same body. Oh shit! I sometimes wonder what that would be like. If I was one, could I literally fuck myself? OMG How cool would THAT be?? Ok, I've lost track and rambled on Waaaay to long. Its Friday!! and I hope you all are getting ready for a fantastic weekend. Cheers, hugs, kisses and some MAJOR slurps to all of ya! -tm  |
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I can do the emotionless sex....but it's way more fun to have some emotions involved. I like to be able to click with the person because I love an intelligent person And I had to giggle at the T-girl and shemale comments. I love having a woman with a strap-on fucking me cause it's almost perfect The only thing I'd love more is if it was nice and warm in me  "Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it." — Candace Bushnell  ~~Ashley92577~~
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4/12/2013 11:27 am |
well i got to agree with you that bisexuality is fun and good to be proud. you get to actually be able to be with someone and fall in love with them and not care about what gender they are im a nympho  
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Hello there. I stumbled across your blog and profile and really liked what I read about being bi and having group fun and I really identified with all of it. A little about me, I'm bi and married. My wife is out of town for a few weeks with FEMA and I'm home alone.... I'd love to get an audition with you that could lead to a group invite. I'm very respectful, discreet and open to trying anything twice. -tm
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1 post 11/12/2012 7:45 pm |
Hello there. I stumbled across your blog and profile and really liked what I read about being bi and having group fun and I really identified with all of it. A little about me, I'm bi and married. My wife is out of town for a few weeks with FEMA and I'm home alone.... I'd love to get an audition with you that could lead to a group invite. I'm very respectful, discreet and open to trying anything twice.
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Martin Luther nailed 95 theses on a church door to begin the Reformation. What follows is my list of 10 theses about bi-male sex that I would nail up on an adult site to begin the reformation of the Lifestyle to be more accepting of bi-male play and to give added reverence for the freedom of sexuality between consenting adults, unrepressed by dogma or doctrine. Toward 95 Theses: 1. Bi male sex amidst the erotic play of couples makes it possible for men to follow one of the sacred commandments: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, or more precisely, Do unto another cock what you love done unto your own. 2. It's that Third Law of Erotic Thermodynamics: The tangling up of couples on the same bed, in every combination and permutation, creates a more confined critical mass, thus generating more heat. 3. Bi male sex is liberatory in its energies: It breaks convention, transcends the norm, violates taboo and creates a more open playing field. 3. Bi male sex is not just more liberatory but more communal in its energies, integrating the men more than straight sex into the shared energy generated by all (i.e., it gives men a way to remain involved and in contact with erogenous flesh other than their own when the woman are off doing it together). 5. Bi male sex helps tame down Alpha male energies and defuse jealousy: How can a man get jealous of a cock entering his lover's pussy if he has just been sucking on it? 6. Self-confidence about one's masculinity can be a powerful aphrodisiac for woman, and bi males have the strength of their own convictions about their sexuality to trump over whatever society--or even the Lifestyle itself--says should be the norm, thus demonstrating their self-confidence in ways no straight heterosexual can match 7. There's less dead time during play time: When the women are getting it on together, the men can be holding onto or pleasuring some orther source of erogenous flesh than their own, keeping up more of a connection, or keeping all poles wired together in an electrcally charged flow. 8. Bi male sex gives men a way to instruct women in the best ways of being taken as teaching by example is a much more effective pedagogy than teaching by dictate or precept. 9. Bi male sex celebrates the polymorphous perverse; it offers multiplicity, or a more extensive range of combinations and permutations for erotic play and pleasuring. 10. Bi-male sex allows both partners (often at once) to marvel at the mysteries, powers, energies, quirks and foibles of that magnificent piece of nature belonging to another man: The Cock. Indeed, no two cocks are alike, and to compare cocks is to appreciate difference as well as sameness, and the appreciation of difference and diversity is a beautiful, generous, essentially democratic act.
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Awesome post and I agee with you on so many levels its not funny. I just love being bisexual!
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Awesome post and I agee with you on so many levels its not funny. I just love being bisexual!
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3/25/2010 4:33 am |
Martin Luther nailed 95 theses on a church door to begin the Reformation. What follows is my list of 10 theses about bi-male sex that I would nail up on an adult site to begin the reformation of the Lifestyle to be more accepting of bi-male play and to give added reverence for the freedom of sexuality between consenting adults, unrepressed by dogma or doctrine. Toward 95 Theses: 1. Bi male sex amidst the erotic play of couples makes it possible for men to follow one of the sacred commandments: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, or more precisely, Do unto another cock what you love done unto your own. 2. It's that Third Law of Erotic Thermodynamics: The tangling up of couples on the same bed, in every combination and permutation, creates a more confined critical mass, thus generating more heat. 3. Bi male sex is liberatory in its energies: It breaks convention, transcends the norm, violates taboo and creates a more open playing field. 3. Bi male sex is not just more liberatory but more communal in its energies, integrating the men more than straight sex into the shared energy generated by all (i.e., it gives men a way to remain involved and in contact with erogenous flesh other than their own when the woman are off doing it together). 5. Bi male sex helps tame down Alpha male energies and defuse jealousy: How can a man get jealous of a cock entering his lover's pussy if he has just been sucking on it? 6. Self-confidence about one's masculinity can be a powerful aphrodisiac for woman, and bi males have the strength of their own convictions about their sexuality to trump over whatever society--or even the Lifestyle itself--says should be the norm, thus demonstrating their self-confidence in ways no straight heterosexual can match 7. There's less dead time during play time: When the women are getting it on together, the men can be holding onto or pleasuring some orther source of erogenous flesh than their own, keeping up more of a connection, or keeping all poles wired together in an electrcally charged flow. 8. Bi male sex gives men a way to instruct women in the best ways of being taken as teaching by example is a much more effective pedagogy than teaching by dictate or precept. 9. Bi male sex celebrates the polymorphous perverse; it offers multiplicity, or a more extensive range of combinations and permutations for erotic play and pleasuring. 10. Bi-male sex allows both partners (often at once) to marvel at the mysteries, powers, energies, quirks and foibles of that magnificent piece of nature belonging to another man: The Cock. Indeed, no two cocks are alike, and to compare cocks is to appreciate difference as well as sameness, and the appreciation of difference and diversity is a beautiful, generous, essentially democratic act.
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Thanks for sharing; sometimes life can simply just be more complicated than what it needs to be. Great blog!
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Glad to see you are comfortable with yourself.
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I would agree with some of the ladies here about need for emotional attachment. Their views prove what I always say, which is that male/female gender trait stereotypes are just that. As to sexuality, frankly, I am always a little amazed. According to the experts virtually every man has had a homosexual experience or fantasized about it at one time or another. Me? Never. Actually physically repulsed by the idea. In fact, as much as I want a FMF threesome, I could never do the other way around because I simply couldn't get aroused, regardless of how much I wanted the woman. Actually I am constantly amazed that even a woman would be interested in a man!!! As to your assessment of men's bisexuality, I tend to agree. I regularly get emails from men here, like the ladies get, of the "I'm passing through town - wanna fuck?" And when I am curious as to whether they list themselves as gay or bi, almost 100% show on their profiles as married, straight. Good for you about your own perspective on your sexuality. The one thing I wonder is why you feel you need to lie to your wife. Does she know you're bi? And could she accept you seeking sex elsewhere since she won't give it to you?
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6/4/2008 11:24 am |
That is what I adore about you - you are simply you. You make me excuses or lame ass ( OOOPPSS, sorry!) distractions for what you like or dont like. The fact that you are so open and honest about what you need and want is so freshing. Most people make excuses or label people - you lay it all out on the line and really dont mind what people think or say.  Save A Horse and Ride A Cowgirl
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Angie, awwww now you have the ol Tazzerman just a blushing... Too bad we live so far apart. I just KNOW we'd me 'mates' at least! You are just SO sweet darlin! -tm
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5/16/2008 7:24 pm |
Very eye opening for me thanks for sharing .....sorry that your wife has no sexual desire must be hard for the two of you.  {=} BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER{=}
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I disagree that all women need a emotional connection. The whole time I maintained my crew of "cabana boyz" I didn't keep them around because I felt any deep emotional connection to them, it was a convenience thing. It was hard finding someone who was "up to snuff" and able to deal with my crazy work and family schedule. I kept at least three to satisfy my appetites but avoid them getting to attached emotionally. Being bisexual is definitely the shit. I tend to not actively seek out women (but it has been known to happen that I'll meet one that makes me purr) and I'm glad I held out on the relationship deal until I met someone who could not only let me be me but love me for it. The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.
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My husband is bi. He wants to be more courageous. In time I think he will. He just came out to me last year. He expected me to freak. NAH...I can't be every thing for him. Thats ok, because I need more too. We play together and separate. I don't go looking to have sex with women but if its there, I'll do it. I have asked my husband to read your blog. I think it would help him live courageously....Now your a role model....LOL
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