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Tazzerman's guide to FOREPLAY for guys who just do NOT get it!
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Tazzerman's guide to FOREPLAY for guys who just do NOT get it!  Alright guys, listen up! I'm only going to say THIS once. REAL MEN DO FOREPLAY! First a little definition: In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create desire for sexual activity and sexual arousal. Either or any of the sexual partners may initiate the foreplay, and they may not be the active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay lowers inhibitions and increases the emotional comfort of the partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners. Guys, if you're NOT spending the time to get your lover ready then you're a lousy lover. Period! I don't care HOW big you think your dick his, I don't care if you can fuck all night long, all of that doesn't mean shit if you're NOT willing to put the time and effort in to making sure your lady is psychologically and physically ready, comfortable and trusting. Sliding your dick into a dry pussy is NOT my idea of good sex and it's a good way to make SURE you never get invited back again. On the other hand, taking the time to 'stoke' the fires so to speak will ensure a return engagement. Ol Tazzerman has a simple rule of thumb. I will ALWAYS make sure that my gal has had at LEAST one or two orgasms before I even THINK of sliding Mr. Drippy inside of her. I would say that on a whole, I spend roughly 2/3 on foreplay and 1/3 on actual fucking. I'll go so far as to get my gal right to the edge and THEN slide my cock inside of her and fuck her silly. There's NOTHING like coming together and by doing it the 'Tazzerman Way' you have a much better chance of accomplishing the 'Holy Grail' of simultaneous orgasms! Keep in mind that you don't have to STOP having foreplay. I love to get my gal going with foreplay THEN a bit of fucking then right back to foreplay. Keep trading it up and you'll drive her crazy! (In a good way) So what really constitutes foreplay you may ask... Well, use your fucking imagination!!! Licking her pussy and clit? Sure. Kissing, fondling, rubbing, massaging? Absolutely! The sky is the limit. A nice romantic, candle-lit dinner, good wine, music are ALL foreplay when employed in the proper manner. Foreplay is where YOU START but it can also be an end unto itself. There have been times when Ol Tazzerman has in fact spent 100% of the time lost in total, full-bore, all out foreplay, never having actually fucking but both of us still ending up totally spent and satisfied! Communication is paramount my friends. PARAMOUNT! You can be licking and sucking away, thinking your G_ds gift to sex and all the while, your partner is laying there staring at her finger nails or wondering if she needs to do laundry. YOU need to ask if are you doing it right! ASK! Does she LIKE what you're doing? What would SHE like you to do? How does she like it exactly? Talk to her. Learn HOW to talk to her. Don't be shy!! Trust me, she'll LOVE ya for it. Foreplay is an attitude. You MUST truly want to please your partner and NOT just get your own rocks off. Once you have the proper attitude, everything else is easy. Do the research, learn the female anatomy, there's plenty of resources on the web, buy yourself various lubes and oils, learn how to give a good massage, get yourself some fun toys, learn how to use them, talk to your partner and see what she likes and how she likes it, she might surprise ya! Learn to use your cock as an adjunct to these things, make giving your partner orgasm after orgasm your priority and everything else will flow from that! Smile, laugh and have FUN!!!!  -tm |
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I like to start with a nice dinner. A few drinks are great, than some sexy talking, touching n than kissing. I think the kissing is most important, lips, neck, n where ever she will let me kiss.
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Love this post!
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I find that foreplay where the man just plays with the woman on the outside of her clothes for a bit, then slowly removing some clothing off of her, and again, lots of touching, rubbing, massaging, kissing, licking, just breathing on the darn skin that is now exposed, then slowly both individuals are naked, and then just sliding against each other, skin-to-skin, make ms fucking crazy! By the time the guy actually gets his stiff cock into me, I have usually had two orgasms and I am begging to be fucked. I'm just saying that sometimes foreplay starts waaaay before the actual event happens or any nakedness occurs. I have to admit that once, in the middle of a fight with an ex, I said with my big smart mouth "Yeah, you are really making me want to have sex with you later on tonight" in the most sarcastic way possible. But it was the truth. Foreplay is the thoughtful brush of the hand against the nape of her neck when she is washing the dishes. Or giving her her car keys before she leaves for work and a light sexy kiss with it. Those are the things that linger and make us want our partners all the more when they start with what is traditional foreplay. Just my thoughts and not necessarily anyone else's thoughts on the subject... Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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I'm just glad I am one of the lucky ones... Fore Play should be an event that damn near never ends, Good post..
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How true!!! If only more men realised this! Hugs EE407
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its easy to know if you are doing it right with me  if ya dont hear me making some kind of sound you are doing something wrong  great info post.
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