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Why guys don't get 'laid'.
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Why guys don't get 'laid'.  A good friend of mine asked me the following question yesterday: Why don't guys get laid? Of course this touched off a long and far ranging discussion but my initial answer surprised her. She then went on to tell me that she had asked a bunch of other folks the same question and while they all pretty much had the same answer, mine was different.  (Imagine that eh) In a nutshell, the reason guys don't get laid more is simple. They do NOT know how to talk to women. As I've always said in regard to how men and women view sex: Women need a reason, men just need a place. Communication is the WAY a guys GIVES said woman that 'reason' my friends. Now granted, there is always that physical attraction 'thing', no doubt BUT I'm a firm believer that honest, up-front, caring, two-way communication can and often DOES trump all else. Of course the opposite is true also. If you can't communicate or talk honestly with a women, I really don't care WHAT kind of a stud you are, chances are you ain't getting laid my friends. We all know that one of the 'cardinal'<b> sins </font></b>here on FriendFinder-x is for some would be Lothario to send that dreaded AND hated 'wanna fuck' email to the object of his desire. Especially when it's coupled with the infamous 'Dick Pic'.. No no no no NO!! Guys, you've just ensured that you will NOT get your dick wet. Trust me on this. (Oh and btw, don't you REALIZE that the gals on this site talk to each OTHER?) LOL Now while THAT approach does often work in the bisexual/gay-guy world, trust me on this, it NEVER works with the lovely ladies. You've in fact done the exact opposite of giving her a reason to have sex with you. You've given her a reason NOT to have sex. Dumb move buckwheat... Now, not to sound arrogant or anything but Ol Tazzerman does in fact get laid a WHOLE lot more than your average bear. I know that I'm NOT the best looking guy around and I'm certainly NOT the most well hung stud out here BUT I AM more than capable of talking to, engaging with and actually LISTENING to women. (People in general I might add) I also CARE and of course, the fact that I'm both a totally committed 'pleaser' AND a hopeless romantic doesn't hurt in the least. Women respond to open, honest communication. They also respond to confidence and a certain zest or passion for life in general. All these things add up and move you in the right direction of giving her a REASON to want to have sex with you. Try it sometime. Read her profile throughly, engage her about here likes, dislikes, wants, needs and desires not to MENTION her world and life in general. Honestly listen to what she says, especially about those 'mundane' things that we all almost always kind of zone out on. They matter to her so they should matter to you. Let her know the REAL you, communicate honestly to her, let her know WHO you are. The rest will fall into place, trust me. Any questions? -tm |
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Very nice. The nape of the neck IS SUCH a highly erogenous area. I don't know why more guys don't take 'advantage' of it -tm
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Aha so there ya have proof POSITIVE guys! I wish I could read your profile but alas, I've let my little silver ball lapse so I'll just have to GUESS what it is that makes you weak in the knees my dear  -tm
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As usual, you are right on, Tazz -tm
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As usual, you are right on, Tazz ***
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