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Sexual bribery
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Sexual bribery  I was reading a story the other day where the woman used sexual favors has a bribe to make her guy do what she wanted and it got me both a bit pissed off and to thinking about the subject. Of course, once that happens..... LOL Now sexual bribery in the context of sex/role playing is one thing and I think it can be a VERY hot thing but REAL sexual bribery where one person either withholds sex or promises some sexual favor in order to get what they want is just WRONG and futher I think it's inidicative of a truly fucked up person and/or relationship in general. I hate to say it but from my experience, it's typically a woman who will try and use sexual favors in this manner. Sure I can see scenarios where a guy could do this but it's typically a woman who will try this. So, my questions this morning are simple, do you ever use sex as a 'bribe' to get you way or get something you want? Do you agree with me that outside of sex/role playing, there really is nothing 'good' about using sexual favors in this way? |
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Never done it myself, other than joking. I have broken up with women who did that though.
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Wow, did you hit on a hot-button topic. I have zero tolerance for anyone using sex as a weapon. Zero. Sex is a form of play. Might be a shade of difference between sex as a weapon and what you're describing above, but only a shade. Could see something negotiated, such as "I'll try an FMF threesome with you if you're willing to explore an MFM threesome with me..." but that's negotiation, not a bribe -- or a combative situation. *Sigh* All right, I may have shot wide of your point here, but still... hot topic. Which is the sign of a good post. Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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It's wrong, for sure. You either want to do it or not. Now, using it as a lure, such as "if you make some time for me to come visit you this weekend we can get together" I tend to see in a whole other light. After all, if you're not in the same location it's really hard to have sex together (the physical, in person kind, that is).
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In my case.... I was watching some tv show hosting a psychologist, a women was wanting her man to lose weight so she was withholding sex until her did,, which is WRONG. They advised her to give him EXTRA for every 10 lbs lost, maybe a strip show, or something out of the ordinary. I am using the same technique on Hagar for his weight... he doesn't have a problem with it at all. Ive never withheld from him, he's disabled and we do what we can, when we can.... but the promise of an hour long set of BJ's has him eating lighter! He's appreciating the extra motivation. His BJ's are usually just until he cums,,, Ive promised on that will go on and on regardless of how many times he comes.
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